Hey guys!!! So I just had a question about summoning because one of the best things (for me) to do in a lucid dream is to summon people to interact with. Lately I don’t know why by my lucid dreams have been becoming more, how do I put this… explicit?? Ya that’s the right word to use. So I have been trying to summon some hot chicks I’ve been having some problems though.
-Most the girls are ugly
-If they’re cute they disappear as soon as I embrace them
-If they don’t disappear then they turn into the first problem again (ugly)
-The girls that I try to summon never actually appear, it’s never really the exact person that I wanted
-Some want nothing to do with me. Also I don’t want to rape them i’m not some pedophile who walks around his dreams sexing every moving thing but I’m wondering why the girls aren’t cooperating
If anyone could respond to these questions I would greatly appreciate it THANKS!!
One of your issues would probably be the want. The want for a girl of all things could lead to some excitement, if not at least hopeful expectation, and that can lead to quite a few things going on in your head, leaving you without proper focus.
This is why I would only recommend “explicit” things after you have completed quite a few successful tests within lucid dreams. Such as trying out and perfecting a fireball, that takes a bit of focus and concentration. Or perfecting your flying. Anything that wont work without the proper mindset, I guess. Without that kind of focus, having sex probably wont work given the fact that it is an “intense process”.
I mean, if you can’t even BEGIN to have sex in a lucid dream, what do you think the climax is going to do? Expel you from the dream! At least most of the time that happens to newer lucid dreamers when they try and have sex, believe me, I’ve never once read of an experienced lucid dreamer on this site experiencing issues having sex in a dream.
I would say work on your focus, concentration, and control. This would solve a number of your issues, some girls not wanting you, some of them being ugly, some of them disappearing, and probably an issue you’ll have in the future: being expelled from the dream during actual intercourse.
Unfortunately, increasing all of those attributes you’ll need will take some DETOURING, god forbid. Practicing other things like psychokinesis, or flying, or anything else that, like I said, takes a bit of focus to perfect (and by perfect, I mean you can do it without causing anything else to happen. Like trying to fly, but having winds shove you backwards or some other nonsense you should be able to control).
One way to improve these things IRL is to meditate while focusing on a single image or place. Listening to music helps this as well, helps the time to pass and helps you block out other white noise. As long as you don’t stop focusing on that image/place because of the music, mind you.
I’ve been having some problems though.
THANKS!!