I’ve been planning on making this topic for a while now. When I say “a matter of preference,” I’m speaking of your personal thoughts on dating partners. For those of you already married or in a serious relationship, try to think of a world where your partner meets some of the following standards.
What if you had someone with a personality that was perfect for you. They would always be faithful, laugh at your jokes, not pressure you into anything you didn’t want to do. The only thing is they look sort of… ‘different.’ A guy could be extremely skinny, short, shy, nerdy, an oddball, ext. A girl could be flat chested, have hairy legs, play sports, look like a guy, whatever. Maybe that special someone would be handicapped in a certain way, or have a serious illness like AIDS.
The question is: would you still love them the same? Would you even give them a chance at a date, or be too embarrassed to be seen in public with them? Remember, this person would have the most fantastic personality in the world. (when put to your standards at least) And they would like you. You’re 100% sure that they would never cheat or grow bored with you, so you’d have security as well.
I would like to know this because I know a few people exactly like this. Dorky guys, hairy girls, and they seem like a really great bunch that doesn’t get the respect they deserve. As long as I like my mate’s personality, I don’t care what they look like really.