first of all most of my LDs heppen about 2 and a half hours after i go to sleep after that its like impossible to have more, i am using only wild - counting however i fall asleep and i find my self in my room or near my apartment (on the street) , mostly i just realize in my dream that i am dreaming just by figuring it out , after that its kind of easy to stay lucid until i begin to try things , my main target is to have sex (XD) but every time i get to this phase i wake up kind of fast , its fading so fast that i dont have time to do nothing to stay in my LD , so my question is : why do i moslty get LDs after 2.5 hours of sleeping , and why cant i to have another LD after this?
and why when i try to have sex boom and i am awake , even when i try to stay calm , i begin it slowly and everything is under control and suddenly thats it i am awake ?
Voluntarily or not, it’s very much possible that you gave your subconscious a command to make you lucid at that given time. Of course, since it’s happened several times for you, you now have it as a habit or quite possibly close to a second nature. This is actually awesome for you, and provides you one step closer to being able to lucid dream very frequently. As for not being able to LD after that initial one, try looking into some Autosuggestion or Hypnosis with bwgen and see if you can’t break the spell by sending another command to your subconscious. To do this, simply download bwgen, turn on the hypnosis preset with headphones, and once in a trance, tell your self in your mind that you will have a lucid dream at ( insert time here ). Obviously you can use any phrase you want though, if that one doesn’t suit you.
There’s a few ways to approach this, but I’ll only go over the two most effective ways.
As said above, just don’t have sex, lol. I know it’s incredibly tempting, but as noted, you will wake up because of the excitement. What happens is you basically begin to gain consciousness during the dream because of the chemicals being released for pleasure ( or something along those lines ). Point being, it will make you wake up if you can’t learn to settle down.
Learn to calm down. People doing sensational acts, like sex, for the first time in dreams always have the adrenaline issue. While I can’t really specifically tell you how to calm yourself down, because only you know how to do that, I can tell you that you need to refrain from getting too much into it at first. Take baby steps when doing this stuff. To put it graphically, don’t go having some sex fest with multiple DCs your first time, lol. That’s like lucid dream suicide. Instead, only be with one DC, and try not to make it, eh, too active.
I’m afraid it’s a bit hard to explain how to do all this without getting censored by a moderator, lol. You’ll just have to experiment. Just know that after practice, sex, and other things, gets extremely easy to accomplish. So, keep up the work, and you’ll eventually get there.
I used to get a headache every single monday. Without fail, and that was because I expected to get them. But not anymore, as I willed myself not to get them. ha willing rocks.
And also I used to be ill, every single saturday… but then I made it go away with the POWER OF MY MIND!! HAHA
btw ben , if you remember me its stas , i sent you few emails in the past, my first LD was thanks to your program , but i found it too hard to follow and so i left it .
back to the main subject , i never used a command with time , i only said to myself that i will LD tonight , or something like this , i tried not moving and not opening eyes but it didnt help .
i tried to clam down , it wasnt the first time you know…
so i did it last time slowly and tried to stay as calm as i could but still its like a forbidden area just when i getting there i am out, i think i will learn to handle this in the future , at least i hope XD
you can pm me with some techniqes that can speed my progress , i will be really glad if you do
last thing if i fall asleep while wild , that means it failed isnt it ? so why am i always near my apartment ? its kind of working even if i fell asleep , wierd …
I did say voluntarily or not. It’s quite possible that your subconscious ( so in essense not you ) programmed that command itself after you saw that you had a lucid dream 2 hours in to sleeping. The mind is weird sometimes…lol.
Yeah it’s tough to have sex in dreams, and there’s 3 major reasons why. 1) You read a lot of people saying how hard it is, which puts doubts in your head about whether or not you can succeed. 2) You get too excited, chemicals release in your head, and you wake up from too much, err, fun, lol. 3) The two combine and you get this ultra block and feel as if it’s just not going to happen.
Well, honestly, there’s nothing really to help speed the process. You’ll just have to experiment with things yourself to see what works. Shout out numerous commands while lucid, like “I will not wake up during sex!” or something like that. Usually commands given in your dreams carry through to your mind pretty fast and efficiently. In essence, you can speak with your subconscious without having to do meditation and hypnosis and all of those tedious tasks.
Well, believe it or not, you have to fall asleep during WILD to actually carry through with a WILD . No, I know what you mean. Yeah you need to either try a different variation of WILD that may allow you to stay more focused or fall asleep more consciously, OR you need to just not do WILD. WILD is most definately not for everybody, especially people leaning to the insomniac side. As for the apartment issue, you could use that to your advantage. Simply do a quick MILD before going to bed, saying that the next time you’re in / near your apartment, you will do a RC. Or perhaps in real life you could do a RC whenever you are near, which will in turn carry over to your dreams. Work with what you have, no point in creating a whole new scenario.
first, try other things like flying. then, when you have sex, dont look at ur partner or gaze in her eyes, and dont close your eyes. also, i gave buttsecks to some chick in my first LD, and didn’t wake up (i woke up after a crowd chased me for raping her lawl) but thats just my suggestion.
flying isnt a problem , last time i lucid dreamed i flew like superman and before i flew and some other way , and i did other stuff , i am trying to do hard stuff, after i reach my corrent goal i will try to create DC last time i tried i couldnt succeed i just need to mantion that i am having a ld once in a 2 weeks , but in the last week i had 3 i think .
btw it sounds like a regular dream , cuz why did you have to run away ? you could just disappear or kill the crowd XD
my conclusion out of all what was said is that i just need to practice
. No, I know what you mean. Yeah you need to either try a different variation of WILD that may allow you to stay more focused or fall asleep more consciously, OR you need to just not do WILD. WILD is most definately not for everybody, especially people leaning to the insomniac side. As for the apartment issue, you could use that to your advantage. Simply do a quick MILD before going to bed, saying that the next time you’re in / near your apartment, you will do a RC. Or perhaps in real life you could do a RC whenever you are near, which will in turn carry over to your dreams. Work with what you have, no point in creating a whole new scenario.