Control

[Ewok_Evil]

I love to lucid dream and have been blessed with the capability to have one almost every night if i put my mind to it. BUT i would like a bit more control in some of my dreams. belive me, i understand that just leting things happen is half the adventure.

My problem is not that i cant control it but that when i start trying to control my dream I almost always wake up before i can acomplish my goal. Most of the time this goal is to make love to a beutiful woman.

most the time when i come acrose a sexualy atractive women in my dream i eaither dont do anything/ not think about it, or think to hard and end up waking up.

Its like torture…

Just last night i was in some weird tent with atleast 8 other gorgeous girls all half naked… it was great just being there, but as soon as i started to fool around with one of them all the others disapeared… then before anything really good could happen i belive i woke up very shortly but not compleatly then when i went back to dreaming i was in a totaly diferent spot and i started to run around in search of the girl i just lost…

I would love any tips anyone can give me.

I have been over the site and I am going to start practicing some of the techniques and maybe that will help too.

Thanks

[noam182r]

ha!..
when you are in your LD first: try to relax… then: rub your hends ( that will make your dream more clearly and stable!

try that!

[Sarochimaru]

I never have problems with any of that. I only wake up when I tell myself to wake up. Or when I get beaten by something (even when in LD).

[Element]

Try to stop while LD for a moment and think to yourself. “I am dreaming, right? That’s mean I can do whatever I like”. Think of it again and again until you fully believe and understand the meaning of that.
It should work, good luck.

[Sureal]

Most people have trouble having sex in LD’s (they keep on waking up).
Reasons for waking up:

• You get to exicted (try to keep calm. Rubbing your hands - yes, whilst having sex - may help)
• You close your eyes and lose touch with the dream world (try either not to close you eyes, or, if you do, concentrate on another sense - such as touch)

If you persist (and try over and over), you can do it eventually (like me - multimple times in one dream… ).

[Ewok_Evil]

@Element

Try to stop while LD for a moment and think to yourself. “I am dreaming, right? That’s mean I can do whatever I like”. Think of it again and again until you fully believe and understand the meaning of that.
It should work, good luck.

its not that i cant do whatever i want. its that when i do i wake up

@Sureal

Most people have trouble having sex in LD’s (they keep on waking up).
Reasons for waking up:

• You get to exicted (try to keep calm. Rubbing your hands - yes, whilst having sex - may help)
• You close your eyes and lose touch with the dream world (try either not to close you eyes, or, if you do, concentrate on another sense - such as touch)

If you persist (and try over and over), you can do it eventually (like me - multimple times in one dream… ).

thanks for the tips. i can only hope i get to the point that your at.

[Jack]

Yes,rubbing helps a lot in many situations:)
Seriously though- Sureals right- either wait for your lds to become more stable and stop yourself from sexuall activities for now(did i really say that? or just keep practicing(now im talking:).
good luck:)

[Sureal]

I waited before I tried to have sex.

… actually, that’s a lie. I tried from my second (or was it third?) . But my sub-c just wouldn’t let me (girls wouldn’t be in the dream anywhere, the girls would refuse too etc) until something like my twentith LD .