Hello People,
I hope you can halp me. I´m interested in LD since 1 or 2 years but, after i dont know WEeks i had my first LD and was able to remember 3 dreams without the WBTB. But after a while it was a bit boring. I had lucid dreams but they werent frequently and so I had no idea what to do, i´ve tried LD-Sex but I woke up, and so I got Lds where for one or two seconds because as the thought of sex came I woke up. So I wanted to do other things but I woke up bec. I was too happy as i had the lds and my vision wasnt clear, and the ideas were n ot very good^^. My NDs weren´t too exciting also. And so i have made a big mistake: I´ve stopped to wirte my DJ, because it was for me “too much work” to write 3 boring dreams every morning, when im very tired and had to go to school in the morning. (i hope you understand the sense of the sentence^^) And in the first weeks i had no problems with my DR. That´s now a year ago. And now: I wanted to start again with LD and i´ve tried it with de DJ in this year but I had not much luck, and after a week i´ve given up every time. But now i want to have my enthusiastic back. I want to write again but after i have woke up I´m not very motivated and after a while I forget the dreams again. And now I wanted to ask you to help me to get my enthusiastic back. I hope You can help me
Thx
DG
My advice to you would be, get interested in your dreams first. They always have deep meanings if you want them to, and look for it in the morning. Ask for deep, interesting (or just fun 
) dreams and you will get. And take your time to write them down 
After that, you can read the Lucid to-do list topic, or the Lucid checklist - there are just so much things you can do in a LD, so don’t focus on just one and make it a mental block; instead, pick one you feel it will be both easy and exiting first, get back into the feeling, into the happiness. Then work out your way ^^
Ok and where do i get literatur about the “deep meaning” you´ve said, for free?
If you mean dream interpretation, you can do it yourself (best call), or there are plenty free dream dictionaries on the web; you can google “dream dictionary”, or you can ask some other member, as I don’t really use them, so I can’t really suggest a good one.
you wouldnt be on this site if you were not interested. you just seem to be losing motivation. besides sex ld’s get old after a while anyway. try to explore the forums for other ppl’s ideas and ldj’s. tell yourself you want it and you will have it. its right in front of you now all you need to do is reach out and take it.
in other words its all in your head. if you want something bad enough, dont you strive to reach your goal. set high goals. expect more and you shall recieve. only think positive. tell yourself tonights the night. (every night)
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