heeelllp please somebody save my LDs from my mom XD

hi guys have a small problem please sombody help me :cry: . what happens is that my mom alwayse wakes me up in the morning and she wont shut up untill I am fully awake, and that its not letting me have dream recall,( I have noticed that the only days that I can remember what I have been dreaming of is on weekends because I wake up slowly) please someone tell me a good way to have dream recall in my case, thank you :help:

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did you try asking her to stop waking you up?

Go to sleep earlier, you should have enough time to finish the dream and wake up slowly before your mom comes in. you can use a alarm clock to help you by setting it up 20 min’s before she comes in.

but wouldnt that alarm annoy him by screaming in his face for twenty minutes

Better than having mom screaming and not shutting up until then.

Talk to your mom, tell your reasons.

I also think that u should sleep earlier than usually, then u would have enough sleep to wake up before she comes in :grin:

I’m in exactly the same situation. Except if my mum didn’t force me out of bed I’d be late for school every day :tongue: . So my dream reacall is virtually non-existant on schoolnights… I really should get more sleep.

Pretty much the same here. I noticed how I didn’t remember a thing yesterday night. (16.01.2008 - 17.01.2008) Now this morning I didn’t remember a thing but after I’ve stood in my bed for a while, chunks of my dream became entering into my mind. After a while I remembered quite a lot. I was reaal happy.

Next monday I think I should set the alarm to like 7.00 AM and go early to bed. :happy:

Ironically, that specific situation was the cause of my first LD,
My mom’s loud scream was enough to get me concious but still in the dream.

thank you every body for your suggestions but I cant wake up earlier (I always wake up at 5:30 am) so if you can tell me some more recal methods it would be usefull

I think keeping a DJ helps me remember my dreams

I’d just tell my mom you can wake me up, but then just go and leave me alone, I’ve noticed being woken up then allowed to sorta drift in a sleepy state for a little helps with dream recall, or morel likely induces WILD and new dreams without you realizing it.

If your mother refuses the best you can do is just have recall on hte weekend or think of some way to circumvent your mother.

:sad:

i have the same problem, maybe ask your mom to wake you up 20 minutes before she usually does then lets you fall back asleep so that by the second time she wakes you up you’ve just had another possibly lucid dream that will be fresh in your mind. If i remember one dream i can usually figure out the other ones cause they come back in pieces throughout the day. good luck!

Id be lucky if I had problem with my mother - at least she would understand if I´d tell her why do I want to wake peacefully . My little sister ( 5 years old ) wakes me every morning very early . I usually go to bed late and I dont sleep much ( 4-5 hours ) . Is there anyone who could come and feed , play , wash my sister when I`m asleep ? :content:

That’s a good advise in my opinion. I have pretty much the same thing remembering my dreams than you. If I remember one dream clearly, the other one’s will come up to my mind. First in chunks of random pictures and sentences, and then eventually I remember the dream. Sometimes, like today, a word triggers a picture or something from my previous dreams which I haven’t recalled. Today I heard the sentence. " Then I started crying. ", and got immediate flashback of yesterday night’s dream. :happy:

Tell her the truth.

Tell her that it is important for you that you are able to wake up naturally because being woken up early can make you more tired through out the day AND damages your dream recall (which can be true) and logging in your DJ is important to you.

Failing that, you’re 18, MOVE OUT.

Tell your mom to let you in bed 10 minutes more or wake up 10 minutes earlier so you can recall your dreams. That’s what I do in the school days when mom or dad tries to wake me up :content:

jajajajaja, yeah im 18 but my school system ends in 12lv grade so im still at school, I told her the truth and she now thinks im in a cult or something like that, fortunately my mom is realy open minded and she seems to find it funny (wohoooo my child is gone crazy) even though we now its not that odd to try to have lucid drams. thanks for your help now im having a better drem recal, at this point I have had 5 LD and I started like a month ago so I think its a good record for a newbie :tongue: remember to check on darktrace’s dream journal thanks to all :content: :smile: :happy: :woo:

Hate to break it to you, but that’s not exactly indicative of openmindedness. :happy: Anyway, I’m glad things are going better for you. Just be totally honest about it, as others have suggested. Make sure she understands that this is a scientifically studied (if not totally understood) phenomenon, not a mystical cult ritual or something. All you’re asking her to do is be gentler about the way she wakes you up, so you can remember the things that happened in your dreams.

Good luck!