how to make things happen?

hi, heres my problem:
when im lucid, i often have a lot of trouble making things happn the way i want them to happen.
for example, i just ha dthis LD last night. i was at a house party and i though, lets try getting drunk in my dream. so i went to the kitchen to make my favourit drink, but no matter what i tried, i just couldnt find the right bottles. i was imagining them really hard, and at some point i managed to find a can of redbull (to mix with vodka, yumy :smile: ) but 10 seconds later, it had turned into organge juice. and i never found teh vodka…
later i was on a metro train riding thorugh tokyo, which was fun. then i thought lets get off at teh next station.
so the train stops not at the station, but 5 meters below it, and i have to climb to the actual station. when i do, the wall turns into mudd.
i try to fly, and shoot into teh sky. i think, go forward, but keep going up.
after a lot of trying, i crash back to the ground…
i mean, things like that. how do you grab more control over such things? are there techniques for it?
strangely enough, sometimes its not hard at all.

1.you need more practice to get the feel of LDs; I had the same problem
2.you can use autosuggestion-tell yourself before you go to bed " I will be able to control my dreams"

Dreams are all about control and confidence; to do something, you must be relaxed, and confident that whatever you attempt will succeed. Often, it happens without even thinking about it, just because you took it for granted ^^

okay ill try that, thanks