Hi, this is a silly question that is just bugging me. Does anybody else find it difficult to use certain techniques to acheive lucidity while sharing a bed? I know wild would be out of the question, unless your willing to tolerate an insulted and indignant wife 
not only should you tolerate her to be insulted with complete detachment, but you also should tolerate insulting and indignating her, if it leads you to lucidity.
the silly thing here is not the question, but someones indignated and insulted reaction to someone else’s goal and actions towards reaching it, especially towards the noble goal of lucidity. this is what likely buggs you.