I was trying for an LD last night, and suddenly i started thinking about , feeling in the dreazm not remembering and it really built up a barrier.
I rememberd the dream the enxt morning but not being in it 
What is going on it never used to be this way
Im not too sure what you are saying here. You started to think about how you would not remember the feeling or your feeling in the dream, and this created a barrier? One thing about trying to pull a lucid dream is that it is a lot easier to do it during a random awakening or in the morning, cuz at those times your body and mind are in full dreaming gear.
Sometimes when im trying to pull a WILD, my abstract mind starts to act up and i get all these weird thoughts that dont make no sense 
but i remember once thinking some irrational thing that put fear into me and just messed me up. (I think it was akin to me going into a coma somehow and not waking up). But yeah, fear is not good for LD. I dont know if you can relate to all of the above…
I oftentimes have weird dreams where stuff happens (w/ DC’s or otherwise) but i am not in there whatsoever, but more like an observer. Dont be discouraged by these - we all get them, and sometimes they are quite interesting and insightful into ourselves.