Remembering lucid origins

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Although I’ve had strong, vivid, and psi dreams for as long as I can remember (over 32 years), lucidity has been difficult to achieve for me, despite trying various methods over time. Occasionally, I get one here or there, although it’s hard to pinpoint any triggers.

BUT!..

In reviewing some early dreams, I realised that as a child, I took lucidity for granted. I never spoke with anyone about dreams until I was about 27, and it didn’t occur to me that lucidity was a thing people try to achieve (let alone experience apart from general dreams). Each night, I would embark on my journey, exploring nearby terrain, interacting with DC’s, and flying a little. Once I started recording dreams (21 years ago), I noted some that were lucid, and I naturally kept myself within the dream by focusing on details.

So now I’m wondering, how did I lose this skill along the way, especially as with time passing, I only became more involved with and serious about my dreams? I wonder if it relates to a changing mindset, or if its a case for soul recovery after experiencing traumatic events over the years. I am open to any thoughts, stories, information, ideas, anything as my frustration is increasing! It’s like wanting to return to a homeland but being unable to :cry: :grrr: :help:

Well in my opinion culture plays a big role in remembering dreams. The older we get the less we remember dreams because culture taught us that dreams are not important and are not definitely something you should waste your time… At least that’s my story…

I guess you should start from the beginning - Dream recall. If you do remember your dreams well, then RC’ing would be next step and them some technique…

Well, I wouldn’t have worded it like that.

I think it’s more of a soft, unintentional neglecting of dreams, i.e. use of language such as “It was just a dream” as soothing words to a child after they had a nightmare. Children are incredibly impressionable, so they take it to heart, or should I say SC, that dreams are not very important. It’s less that people really think that dreams are unimportant imo, because everyone finds dreams interesting one way or another. It’s just that most people don’t pay attention to our own dreams as much because, in some cases, people think that they don’t even have dreams every night.