ok i gotta whack this out real quick but i need some seriose advice.
as most of you know…i’ve been lonley for…well…since i can remember…what you dont know is there is a girl that likes me and i think she’s cute 
but theres one problem…im 15 and she’s 11 
now dont stop reading at this point coz theres more info here…so whenever we meet …y’know we talk, joke and she hints a lot too lol 
and i always wanted to ask her but i thought our age would come between us…then while in spain i realised that my mum is 4 years older than my dad…exactly the same age gap as me and this girl…so…what should i do…is this a sign?..please reply as fast as u can because im going to see her on saturday night and im going to paris on sunday 
is really appreciated
well, that’s though, couse if, lets supose you are 30 and the girl is 26, there are 4 years there, but its not much of a difference, but if you say you are 15 and she 11, there is a noticeable difference.
But I don’t know…if she likes you maybe you should kiss her, but everyone will have something to say to that…just think about the consecuences of kissing her and then do whatever you want
That is usually the rule. Older guy, younger gal. Just for your age I think it would be fine because not much can happen. Your rep might be tainted if your friends knew though…
what kind of a pervert are you 
well it depends , if she is older for her age ( if she has boobs ) maybe you can but in a normal situation i wouldnt.
I’m sorry but 11 is too young for 15. I’d kill you if it was my daughter. I’ve been an 11 yr old girl w/ an older boyfriend and believe me she’s not ready.
I agree, if you were 54 and she was 50 it wouldn’t be a big deal, but 15 and 11, I dunno about that. My sister is 16 and her boyfriend is 19, and that still bugs me
Okay seriously.
15 and 11 is way way way to big off a gap. the thing is that from 15 and up there is no problem. but everything under 15 is to young. Like when i was 15 i made out with a girl thats 24 but that doesnt matter. Becaus then lika age is how you look and how you act. Like som dudes who are 15 can be mistaken for like 17 or more! But like there is no way in detroit that the 11 year old girl looks like 15. But like if it like all serious and stuff you can alwas wait untill you are 19 and she is 15 
No but seriously. Get over her. There is some one ells who wants to make out with you out there.
Trust me. Wait there is no need to rush.
Yeah Go ahead. Give the girl a kiss… on her cheek and pat her on her head. Then give her a barbie doll to play with and send her home.
So you may like her and your mom is 4 years older than your dad but that’s b/c things change as you grow up, key word there.
Challenge yourself. Go for a girl your age or older.
No offense intended. But Jesum Chromosones! 11, do you know how young that is? Well, maybe not to you but I’m sure if her parents find out, you’re in lots of trouble.
maybe you should pm BlueDolphin.
ok, lets think about this for a second… done.
she’s prepubescent you dolt! 4 years isn’t a lot when you’re both older, but in your situation, I think it’s best if you don’t.
Excuse me, But what are you thinking??!
no. That’s not a good idea. I mean, 4 years isn’t a big difference when you’re older, but it definately is now. You’re in highschool, and she’s not even in junior high! (I’m assuming). I don’t think that this girl is ready for a relationship, or a kiss for that matter. When I was 11, that was the last thing I was looking for. Don’t do this. Seriously.
Think about it. The age difference will be a major issue IMO. 11 years old is too young to be ready for a relationship. I’m 14 years old now, and there is a world of difference between what I think now, and what I thought when I was 11 years old. Illumida is right, things change A LOT as you get older, I’ve realized.
IMO, I think this is kinda sick…get someone your own age.
While I agree with most of the posts above my own, I still think it’ s uncalled for to insult somerandomguy like this. He asked for peoples’ advice and opinions before going ahead with his idea (good thing, too), so it’s unnecessary to be so blunt and blatantly rude. Talk about making someone feel like crap!
somerandomguy, continue being friends with this girl and who knows what could happen years down the road when you’re both fully mature. You could be the one guy in her life who’s like a best friend and major support base. When she’s ready for a real relationship, you could be the one. But now isn’t right for it, and neither of you could comprehend the consequences of your actions at this point in your lives.
It’s weird because a lot of girls nowadays appear to be very mature and developed for their age. They can seem so much older and wiser than they really are. But in all reality, they’re oftentimes naive little girls who don’t know what they’re doing or what they want. Treat them delicately and like a sister, even if they’re begging for much more.
Good luck.
lol thanks guys …i think
she does look about my age and im pretty confident she’d kiss back…im certian she fancies me
p.s thats what im talking about sno_isulli
You know what? Having been 11 myself once, I know I was definitely capable of getting huge crushes on boys about then. I say you should give her a kiss on the cheek. Not the lips, but definitely the cheek. It’s a really sweet gesture, and I know the first time a boy kissed me on the cheek I went head over heels with happiness. It really boosted my self-esteem (plus he was absolutely gorgeous!) It doesn’t have to be on the lips to mean something and she sounds like she’s maybe too young to be kissed on the lips anyway.
But a kiss on the cheek… there’s nothing wrong with that.
Like seriously dont kiss her. Prehaps on the cheek. But seriously… NO!
From her point of view - all would be fine.
From her friends point of view - they would think it was god.
From your point of view - well, I suppose that’s up to you.
From your peers point of view - they’d laugh. Probably give you a nickname.
From her parents point of view - they’ll want you dead.
From your parents poitn of view - they’ll worry about you.
Also, take this into consideration: You’ll be 16 next year (or this year?). And she’ll only be 11/12. That will not look good.
My (personal) advice would be to get over her and go for someone closer to your age.
If you really fancy her - wait until shes 14/15.
Call me what you feel you need to call me, but my girlfriend is 4 yrs younger than me. I’m 17. It doesnt bother me that much really, because we are so much in love. And people dont even seem to notice an age difference between us. Because she looks like she could definitly pass for 16. We have kissed in public, and will continue to do so. Her parents were reluctant to allow me to be with her, but that soon ended when they began to notice how sweet I am towards her. We have been together for about 4 months now.
There’s just so much to be said. And what will those who are invincible to everything hear?
Thats the thing though Seraphim, 13 and 17 isn’t so bad…well, I wouldn’t go there myself, but this girl hasn’t even reached puberty yet
I’d give a peck on the cheek, but any boyfirend or girlfriend type relationship, I’d leave till later. Besides, 11 is too young to have a serious relationship anyway, forgive me, but I doubt it would last.
Serioulsy i think the dude who started this topic has got the point by now 
butt it is an interesting discussion
ok ok i’ll give her one on the cheek…who knows…maybe she’ll be the one who kisses me lol (youd be suprised)
i havnt been on for a while coz some wierd error kept coming up whenever i tried to get on the forums