it started when when i was at school under a dream and just out of habit i pinched my nose and tried to breath, and i could breath, and i knew it was a dream, but i couldnt controll at all, and it didnt feel very vivid and i saw myself in third person. was this really a lucid dream? 
If you knew you were dreaming, you were LD’ing. However, vividness control comes with time and practice. But you didn’t wake up immediately, which is good! Congratulations! Continue the good work, don’t give up
Thats great news! 
, and thanks for the help 