In real ife When I do a reality check ( i am doing them quite often) I don’t really know what to expect, like i think to my self “I am dreaming! do a reality check” and i imagine that i can’t see my nose and look at it and of course its there. When I see it I don’t know what to think. So i think “I am not dreaming, and I am dissapointed”
I always know though in the back of my mind “of course you are awake” Should i not think that?
you have got to expect the RCs to prove that you are dreaming. if you think you are awake and do them expecting it to be RL … this same feeling could carry over into your dreams when you do RCs… and so you will see what you expect to see… a failed RC
for me, there is no particular mind set. Just be serious when you are doing a reality check. You are doing it because you know that a dream can be very similar to reality. So when you are doing a reality check, don’t expect anything at all. Just do the reality check, and think to conclude whether you are in a dream. The thinking part is the important part. Like R3TRO said, it cannot turn into a routine.
Everytime you do a reality check, you should actually stop and think about the conclusion.