I think I finally understand why WILD hasnt been working for me. A few nights ago when i let myself forget about my body i had my first WILD. Is the secret to WILD to forget about yor physical body and get lost for awile until a scene appears?
The secret is loosing your body, feeling your dream body, and making a scene. Also WBTB
I suppose you could put it that way… You have the scene part right, I do it that way. Tonight or whenever I WILD again I shall have to pay attention and see what happens. (I do it without thinking now. =p)
The only way I can have a LD is if it’s spontaneous (happens to me a lot) or using the WILD method, but whenever I use this method I make sure for starters I’m calm. I usually lock my door so I know that if I hear any sounds I’m almost in a LD and it’s not just a person coming in or something. After that I focus on nothing but the inside of my eye lids until my brain conjures clearer and clearer images. Then sounds start to follow with the images (for me it takes about 20-30 min. to get to this point) then I either fall asleep or I have a good LD.
lucky… with all the wild ive tried, all ive gotten is blackness… ive tried for hours yet get nothing. a few times i get something i think may be close, but it fades away quickly. i also never get tired from it, most of the time after i finaly give up it takes me another hour to just get to sleep. i think ive fallen asleep after trying to WILD only once do to exaustion from being awake for 36 hours.
I think u try to too hard. With the fades away thingy, the trick is NOT to concentrate on the HI, cuz once u recognize it it WILL fade away. Just dont follow it, keep looking at the same point all the time and DONT try to fall asleep. You just have to relax completely and let it come 
And whats happen after that when you do WILD ?
Usually a do a WILD technique to go in OBE. But how you start a dream , you have to fall asleep.