Can't quite get flying right.

I do beleive we had a big flying topic somewhere-
[Different styles of flying)

16 pages of posts to read!

What I would recommend personally is to reassure yourself that its a dream and anything is possible, then try the easiest form of flying; air swimming. The first time I tried flying I reassured myself then imagined the air becoming really viscous and it worked. ITs really fun when you get it.