What an ADoRable and cute idea this is!! I would of expected a female to come up with this since most dream of their wedding the second they know they will be wearing a ‘princess dress’ as my little 5 yr friend says lol
This seems like a great and fun idea! If u r at all hesitant IRL do ask a lady to marry u…this will be GReat practice in your dream
I hope all your ‘strategies’ work LOl and hope u find your dream dreamwife ^_~ MAy she be all that u look 4 in a (dream)lady
oh Jeff, once you get married, or find the girl you want, you should draw us all a picture of what she looks like on computer and put it up on the forum.
And if every time you get to see her and she is naked , then make sure you draw us all the details
Quote -->LOL ok in real life i would never do that…find a nice girl and then say
“Hi Iam Jeff iam horney lets get married”
But ok in my dream i could try of course lol!
If I were you I would do a LOT of RC’s before you try this one… just in case! Congrats Jeff hope you have a good wedding! (this is an awesome idea!)
This would be great as another shared dreaming experiment…
Tell us when the date is, so we will try to come along and share the dream!
If it works (shared dreaming), you’ll have the entire ld4all forum at your dream wedding!
If you want a dream wife with a good sense of humour, you would have to go for a wacky approach. Probably 5 or 6. Approach no 3 would get you a sentimental wife. 4 a gold digger but hey you can produce loads of money in an LD and enjoy spending it!
But approach 1 and 2 would keep all your options open!
What a great idea!
If you ask me, don’t go for no.6, I don’t think that would lead you to a good wedding. Try no.8 or 9 instead!
Btw: I’m invited too, right? I love weddings! I’ll bring you a very nice present, I promise! (And a very big club for me to get rid of all the single women there and catch the bouquet myself )
I will try many aproaches lol and see where each of them take me
I had a short ld this morning…I dreamed i was walking near a shopping centre and i suddenly thought mm this is a dream…iam dreaming…then i thought of what to do, and i remembered this wedding plan! I made up my mind fast and went for the no1 aproach lol. I looked around and saw nearby at my leftside a blond girl sitting at a bench, she looked ok.
I walked towards her…it seemed like she was waiting for someone or something.
I asked if she wanted to marry me…but she didnt react just looked at me.
After several times of asking she said “Stop being tiresome. Your to late!”
That answer surprised me a bit and i wanted to know what she ment, but then i heared a loud buzzzz it was my alarmclock and I woke up
Grrrrrrrrrr
Well because of this boring reaction I go for no 8 in my next Ld
And i will put my alarmbuzzer of!
Yes! Your invited also Minako
And hmm in my next ld i go for the no.8 aproach and see what happens then! Hopefully a better reaction then.
Brainhacker gave me the hint to show a ring anyway so i maybe do that also at the same time lol!
Jeff, awwww alarm is our BIGGEST enemy. Don’t ever use it!
Next time, try it again WITHOUT alarm and wake up by your bioalarm… much more better and plus your dream is most likely to be finished before your bioalarm turns off. That’s what I do.
When you manage to get a dream-wife-to-be. You can have the wedding at the lucid crossroads…maybe on the beach nearby.
Trouble is you will be very busy before hand , visiting the dreams of the ld4all members to remind us all that we are dreaming. You may run out of time for the post wedding “fun and games”
Yeah, I thought something like that might happen, that’s why I didn’t suggest the first one. In LDs it’s often so that if you ask DCs someting they’ll often give you the anwser that you don’t want to hear. So instead of asking them it’s better to just give them facts and normally they don’t argue. So what I’m saying is that instead of asking a dream girl if she wants to marry you, you go to her and say something like 'Sorry I kept you waiting my dear, I just couldn’t decide which ring would be better. But now I’m here and we can finally get married." Say something like that to her, she’ll believe it, I’m sure. Say it even if YOU don’t believe what you’re telling her. It’s like when you see Freddy Krüger or some other evil person that you don’t like to see in your dreams and you look at him and you say “Oh come on Jack, I know it’s really you!” even if you’re absolutely sure that it’s Freddy who’s standing in front of you. But as soon as you say that, Freddy will turn into Jack and your nightmare is gone. Know what I mean?
Jeff: I say, it’s your dream, when you see a girl, just convince yourself that She wants to marry you first, then when you ask, of course she’ll say yes. I had a dream that my RL girlfriend and I got married, but the preacher forgot a lot of the stuff, including the rings, so after the celebration, we did our own vows, and exchanged rings. Wasn’t lucid, but still a nice dream.
Lol, that’s a good question. Perhaps Jeff has some cool super powers to do it automatically so he doesn’t have to worry about it. Hehehe… that’d be so cool if we have a SD with Jeff’s wedding party!
And if you see a man standing there, waiting for the cat to be tenderised, holding a knife and a fork in his hands, that will be me, oh, and please dont get too frieghtened/aroused if im in my birthday suit
, then make sure you draw us all the details 
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When you manage to get a dream-wife-to-be. You can have the wedding at the lucid crossroads…maybe on the beach nearby.
Hehehe… that’d be so cool if we have a SD with Jeff’s wedding party!
