I second that. Although it seems that now you haven’t seen her for another couple of years and aren’t obsessed anymore… If you still feel that way it might scare her…
I once was quite obsessed with a girl called Aubrey. I called her my aubsession. I am gay, I know.
But why should this scare her off? I’m not asking her to see me again or to become friends with her. I don’t want to interfere with her life or want to upset her. I even don’t expect her to write me back. The only thing I would do is write this one letter to her so that she would know. To know that she knows it is MORE than satisfactory for me.
However, if there’s any chance that I would hurt her feelings with this letter, I won’t do it.
no, go ahead and send it. It just wasn’t clear from your posts what kind of intentions you actually had. The way you put it now, me thinks that she will feel happy and go to bed smiling on the day of getting your letter.
Ok I’ll give it a try then. But it will take some time before that letter is finished (need to find the correct words). And if I would doubt again I can always keep the letter for later or so.
I really hope you’re right that she’ll feel happy about it. Thx
Mines started in kindergarten. My parents sent me to this summer camp that basically hated me. The camp was a pretty cheap camp and alot of the kids were coming from poor homes. I came from a well-off home. Lets just say I got harrassed at that summer camp and at the next few ones after that to the point I gained a subconsious fear of my own race(it sucks…alot…trust me). This happened very early in life so I naturally grew to fear people. I also had a crush on a girl in second grade. Lets just say It was the most embarrasing girl-boy situation possible. Even TV shows can get close to it. I proclaimed undying love(at age and wanted to marrry her. She said no and everybody knew about it. Well lets just say my hatred and distrust of people grew to a new level.
I’m still pissed at my parents for making me go to those summer camps and hopefully can get over it with LDs or therapy.
Did you get around to sending that letter mystic?
I have just read parts I and II of this topic. All my life I have been shy and lacked some confidence. I’m just thankful that I was born female, otherwise I would probably still be single now!
You are too late I have gone through all the lucid lounge ones now now I’ll explore the old threads on the dream section! what’s wrong with being single?"
Nothing if you are able to enjoy relationships…but if I had been male…I would guess I would never have been brave enough to ask anyone out on a date…and as for starting a sex life …there must be more performance anxiety for males.