My first love. Not in RL :(

I have this girl in my dreams. She loves me and I love her. She has always been there for me. We have done so uch together I got to were i was dreaming about her all the time. But sadly now she only appears when I’m feeling really really depressed. She comes and cheers me up. All I have to do is look in her eyes and I’m fine.
I don’t know what it is about her. I feel like never before. I’m not scared, or nervious about what to say or do. It comes so naturally and smoothlly. I feel like I can be m real self around her. That she is the only one who can see deep down inside & see the real me.
O’ I love her so.

That’d be wonderful to have someone who always shows up in your dreams all lovey dovey… I hope to have that one day. (or better yet, someone IRL :wink:)

Yeah I wish I will find someone like that in RL too. Oh’ One can dream.

I do get the pleasure of feeling a lot of love in my dreams. Well more like affection, thats a better term to use. I am always surrounded by (usually drunk) my gal pals and they like to hug and kiss. Its a very warm and welcoming feeling. Sometimes i will get kisses from strangers. I swear Columbia from Rocky Horror was in a hotel room with about 5 of my male buddies, spreading the love around. She was notibly drunk, too.
Nuttin wrong wit dat! :wink:
Its easy to get emotionally attatched to a dream person too, since they appear to be so… so… REAL, y’know?

This has happend to me once before. I found a girl I really had feelings for…but it was worse because someone tied her to a pier and the high tide drowned her. :sad:

It happend once, she sendet her self into eturnal pain too save my life. :cry:

That whole dream-love situation happens to me, too–and sadness follows when I wake up, but I just move past it (eventually) and wait for the next dream like it… :wink:

Man, you people have some sad dreams! Then again, I can have an aweful deal myself. I wasn’t ever in love with the person dying though, thankfully. :whew:

Hm. I used to have a girlfriend who would show up in some of my dreams. A recurring DC, if you will; only that she was my girlfriend for some reason. Didn’t seem to affect me or my feeling in waking life.

Yet, one of the first bad dreams of my fifteens daily nightmare problem was one in which (after some nonsense dream stuff) I appeared in a beach, it was night, and I could see Daniel (one of my best friends) drowning in the sea. I swimmed towards him, pulled him back to the shore and ressurected him. When he woke up, he started to cry and I woke up hugging the air and crying too. I’m (yet another) straight guy, but after that dream I grew very deep feelings for him; because of my dream, I kind of fell in love with him for quite a long time. Then I got over him just like I get over girls and we continued to be friends. Never felt anything like that for a man anymore.

Huh. Funny how dreams can manipulate our feelings.

It’s quite strange with me. I’ve loved two girls IRL, but neither of them loved me back.

In my dreams, girls are always in love with me, yet for some reason, I’m never interested (this isn’t the case in LD’s of course :grin: ) in them , even if they are absolutely stunning!

Weird mind… :wallhit:

I had something similar to what you have written Bruno(i wrote whole dream down in Dream Diary section while ago).
In my case it was a girl changing into man but for some reason it didnt put me off or change my affection.
To me it is that once we`re free with our mind,love and feelings can go to such level that sex does not matter anymore- its just another being that we deeply love.

Hmm, odd dream Bruno. I’ve had strong feelings before, though it was more of a friend love than anything else. 'Cept this one time… true connection. Looks similar to someone I know IRL now, though I had it when I was smaller, which is kind of weird. Nice though. :smile:

I had a dream some years ago in which I met a guy…

I was kinda funny because I didn’t really think about that kind of thing in those days… but every now and then, whilst imagining the future of my Soules (meaning alternative versions of myself, living in alternative worlds), I would try to predict who would be my boyfriend. I think that’s what induced my dream, because the boy in my dream was very similar to my most standart image of a young charachter to my stories. He was dark-eyed, dark-haired, tall, thin, joyfull and quiet. We were playing child running games, hide-and-seek etc. And we laughed a lot. I presented him to my friends and they found him weird. Still, we were happy. After that dream, I was completely in love for him for about two days, then the feeling just vanished forever.

I also had a dream in november in which I was in love with one of my girl friends. It didn’t feel any different from being in love with my boyfriend – I just wanted her to love me. IRL, I couldn’t tell her about the dream… But today I dreamt I dated another of my girl friends, only that this was a terrible dream, because kissing her felt really awkward.

I dreamed once I was fighting with my best friend. We wanted to kill eachother, but, since he was stronger, I tried to seduce him as a technique. It didn’t work too well – he fell for it, but the next day (in the dream) I was desperatly seeking him, calling him, for I had been seduced. I couldn’t tell him about this dream either. It happens.

ugh, i had the worst (or best…) dreams after my girlfriend broke up with me. i kept dreaming night after night that she had changed her mind about breaking up with me. i think its all i dreamt about for a few weeks :confused:
the dissapointmen when waking up did often leave me in tears :sad:
but im all better now :happy:

Well i’ve been in love in a dream 2 or 3 times before but never felt anything waking up more than thinking ‘ah shame dats just a dream’ for a couple of seconds maybe. No sadness, they’re just dreams so why care. Just your imagination people.