I’ve been trying forever to contact my spirit guide or dream guide or any sort of guide in my lucid dreams with no luck, last night i asked a dream character (my friend who has experience with a guide) how to reach my guide and they told me I had to reach the 3rd plane of existence first. I asked them what that was or how to do that but they couldn’t figure it out. I told them if i had ever read it anywhere or if they’d ever told me irl then they should know now and they agreed but couldn’t figure it out. Upon research this morning it seems that the third plane of existence is where we spend the vast majority of our waking lives. Can anyone help me with any insight or ideas as to what might have been meant by this as i would really like to meet my guide. Thanks for the help.
tou want to met him 2 much… i think… he will probably come some time… when you and the steak in his oven are ready.
Since I don’t believe you can contact a spirit guide while asleep (unless they chose to come to you) and that it’s done through meditation while awake, this “having the reach the 3rd plane of exsistance” which you found out means a plane that we spend most of our waking lives in only furthers my belief.
Maybe the dream character was trying to tell you that you need to contact your spirit guide when you are awake not asleep. Since a spirit guide is generally seen as a guide who is in spirit/dead, they may not be able to easily meet you in dreams.
Maybe subconsciously when you asked the question you was meaning a specific guide that you wanted to contact. I did read on a site a way to contact your spirit guide[s] while awake, if you are interested I will see if i still have it on the computer.
Anyways I hope my point of view was helpful in some way 
Thanks for your opinions on the matter and I would appreciate very much if you could share any approaches to contacting my spirit guide while awake, since my subconscious tells me that’s the way to do it.
I haven’t personally tried it yet, so I can’t regale you with success stories.
And I forget which site I first found it on but this is the full page.
[i]First of all, an absolute beginner can meet his/her spirit guides. It was one of the very first things that I did. You already know them, you picked them before you were born and they agreed to help you this time around.
To start, I would suggest that you have a pencil and paper handy. Now find yourself a quiet place. Cleanse yourself and the room thoroughly. Get good and relaxed. Fill yourself and the room with a white light (this is a spiritual light, not a light from a light bulb or a candle). If you don’t know how to do these things see the sections on Cleansing and Meditation, they can help you. Now call your spirit guides to you. It does not matter at this time that you do not consciously know them, they will be there for you. Now say, “Please touch me.” You should feel some sort of sensation somewhere on your body. It could be chills, goose bumps, warmth or a tingling. Whatever it is it will simply be a sign to you that they are there. Having identified (for you) a way to tell their presence, you can go on to the next step, determining how many of them there are.
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This is copyrighted material. You can read the whole article on spiritrus.com/spiritguides/
You can also contact your Spirit Guides awake through meditation, tapping into the Superconscious mind, not the Subconsious, like in sleep and dreaming/lucid dreaming.
Usually, however, one contacts a spirit guide through astral projection, which is a step beyond LD, but can be tapped into through a LD (easier to make a step from the Subconscious mind to the Superconscious, rather than Conscious to Superconscious…
Wow, that’s long. Thanks i may have to try that some time and I’ll be sure to let you know how it goes.
CZChilla so you’re saying I need to have an OBE to meet my guide(s)? If I accomplish this what would i have to do while in this state to contact them?
Thanks for all the info.
I think OBE is coined more for spontaneous astral projection, but I’m not sure.
Anyway, no. You could also , in deep meditation, deep enough to be thrust into the superconscious, ask to see your spirit guide. (Superconscious state of mind is sometimes asscociated with not being able to feel/realize/remember any parts of the physical body. No feeling, remembrance of the position one was in when the meditation began, and things of the sort.)
But Astral Projection is, again, the main way. While on the astral plane, you’d want to keep very calm, move slowly if you must at all, then imagine ascending a staircase. Hopefully, after that, you will have reached the highest level of the astral plane as you can, and from there simply think that you want your Spirit Guide to meet you where you are, or that you want to meet you spirit guide wherever he/she/it is. Actually, be more specific, say ‘A’ spirit guide, for many have more than just one…