A very Strong emotional Dream.

Hey, i come here to this forum when i have some questions sometime, and this time i have a thing that is really hurting, for long i have liked this girl that goes in my class, this semester she moved to another town, wich meant she was swiching school, and this night i dreamt about her, and no, not that kind of dream, i mean i dreamt that i had my emotions for her responded by her, and today i cant stop thinking about that dream, the emotions i had in that dream is still in my mind, and it literly hurts, do you people have any tip about what to do? From what i know i might never get to see her again, and that is sad, but there is not much i can do if she doesent have the same kind of feelings for me.

/ Cyani

I have had similar dreams. Those feelings usually passed by quite quickly tough. To get some peace of mind, you could at least send an e-mail to her or find another way of contacting her.

Was gonna say the same thing as fate. I have been in the same exact situation. Since she’s moving and you prolly already think you won’t see her again just try and find her on the Internet and tell her how you feel :smile:

I have her on Facebook of course :razz: And i talked a bit to her today asking how it’s going and so, but i never had the guts to say how i really feel :razz:
But perhaps i can do it one of these days :smile:

I am very nervus when talking to people i like, so i normal withdraw myself and speak over text or internet, and it feels really embarasing :meh:, But perhaps i just shuld send a message say that i do like her but its okay if she doesent like me back, just to like… Move on?

Just don’t worry about it when talking to her. Just say things like, before you changed schools I was thinking about asking you out, or something like that. Coax here into divulging some of her feelings/thoughts of you

It would probably be a good idea o get it off your chest. Just tell her your true feelings and let that be it. It’s nothin to be ashamed of, everyone has feelings. Make them and your opinions known it’s a big part of who you are!

Ah, you guys give amazing advices, perhaps we shuld make a dating site togheter? :smile:
Nah, but i will probaly do these things you say, just… Say how i feel :smile:

yes, yes! a dating site LOL
relationship advice thread???
start it up :wink:

So, how do you think i shuld write? I cant figure out any good way of putting it… :meh:

I agree with looseyloo. Telling her your true feelings is the only way to truly get it off of your chest. I’m not trying to hurt your feelings or make you nervous about doing it, but, remember that even if she says no there are other fish in the sea. Don’t worry, everything will work out fine.

Good luck! :smile:

How to write it? Keep it simple. Tell her how you feel, how long you have felt that way, wh y you like her (such as “You have a great personality and when I’m around you, you brighten up my day.” , etc.). But, don’t suck up too much. Keep it short and simple. A paragraph should do. Be sincere!

Shit okay, i just sent the text, i told her how i felt and how i been feeling since we first met, and that if she doesent like me back im totaly cool with it, that i just wanted to get it said so to speak, I kind of know deep inside the answer i will recieve, but as you people say, its for the best to just get it said. Thank you my friends! :smile: I will post the answer here later incase you are curious! :razz: <3

Great. I really hope you get the answer that you want! :smile: How close does she live to you now that she moved?

She moved kind of far away, I live in Stockholm and she in Gothenburg(Göteborg) if you know how Sweden is built :razz:

So it would take some time to travel, but it wouldent matter of course :razz:

Well, good luck. I’ll be checking back to see what the reply is. :wink:

Yeah… I dident get the answer that id hope for… But im glad i got it overwith. Thank you friens! :smile:

that sucks, I’m sorry. But at least it is not weighing on your heart anymore! And you can always be friends :smile:

Dude. You can always look the other way for long haired, blonde, Swedish headbangers. There’d be an abundance of them there from what I’ve been led to believe. It’s best just to have open conversations about these things, I feel, with the person in question. You’re probs glad you did so. Someone will come your way. You probably won’t even expect it.