Hey, i come here to this forum when i have some questions sometime, and this time i have a thing that is really hurting, for long i have liked this girl that goes in my class, this semester she moved to another town, wich meant she was swiching school, and this night i dreamt about her, and no, not that kind of dream, i mean i dreamt that i had my emotions for her responded by her, and today i cant stop thinking about that dream, the emotions i had in that dream is still in my mind, and it literly hurts, do you people have any tip about what to do? From what i know i might never get to see her again, and that is sad, but there is not much i can do if she doesent have the same kind of feelings for me.
I have had similar dreams. Those feelings usually passed by quite quickly tough. To get some peace of mind, you could at least send an e-mail to her or find another way of contacting her.
Was gonna say the same thing as fate. I have been in the same exact situation. Since she’s moving and you prolly already think you won’t see her again just try and find her on the Internet and tell her how you feel
I have her on Facebook of course And i talked a bit to her today asking how it’s going and so, but i never had the guts to say how i really feel
But perhaps i can do it one of these days
I am very nervus when talking to people i like, so i normal withdraw myself and speak over text or internet, and it feels really embarasing , But perhaps i just shuld send a message say that i do like her but its okay if she doesent like me back, just to like… Move on?
Just don’t worry about it when talking to her. Just say things like, before you changed schools I was thinking about asking you out, or something like that. Coax here into divulging some of her feelings/thoughts of you
It would probably be a good idea o get it off your chest. Just tell her your true feelings and let that be it. It’s nothin to be ashamed of, everyone has feelings. Make them and your opinions known it’s a big part of who you are!
I agree with looseyloo. Telling her your true feelings is the only way to truly get it off of your chest. I’m not trying to hurt your feelings or make you nervous about doing it, but, remember that even if she says no there are other fish in the sea. Don’t worry, everything will work out fine.
How to write it? Keep it simple. Tell her how you feel, how long you have felt that way, wh y you like her (such as “You have a great personality and when I’m around you, you brighten up my day.” , etc.). But, don’t suck up too much. Keep it short and simple. A paragraph should do. Be sincere!
Shit okay, i just sent the text, i told her how i felt and how i been feeling since we first met, and that if she doesent like me back im totaly cool with it, that i just wanted to get it said so to speak, I kind of know deep inside the answer i will recieve, but as you people say, its for the best to just get it said. Thank you my friends! I will post the answer here later incase you are curious! <3
Dude. You can always look the other way for long haired, blonde, Swedish headbangers. There’d be an abundance of them there from what I’ve been led to believe. It’s best just to have open conversations about these things, I feel, with the person in question. You’re probs glad you did so. Someone will come your way. You probably won’t even expect it.