Hello.
After many LD’s, I felt ready to do my first task (to-do list) in LD. I dreamed about it since I started to know LD.
The task was: Have a good/romantic time with my Crush
So, I become lucid and walked to my crush’s place, but then I had a really big dissapoint and I was really angry. The house where she lives … didn’t exist. House weren’t here, it was under construction
and she obviosly weren’t there. I tried to close my eyes and imagine that the building is finished, tried to spin around, talking to peoples, and so on. I spent 10 minutes trying to get the house done so I can go to see her, but all I did was to make the building a bit more finished, notw fully finished…
Why my brains removed the house from my dreams when I really wanted it to be there??
WHY, BRAINS, WHY!
When I walked to my crushes house about 2 lucid dreams ago instead of it being her in the house it was a MAN! That I didn’t even know. It can be very annoying so I know how you feel. But I think to have full control you need to realise that it is your dream world and by doing so you get full control it is called the layers of lucidity if you want more info on it check out giz edward or Reecejones87 on YouTube both have a couple on videos on it, but mainly reecejones87 and it is his early videos. Otherwise your dreams are going to throw Random things in.
Like rusty has said you gotta believe in your self. In dreamland there are no governing laws of physics, social and political bounds or really anything like that. Everything in dream land is governed by expectations, beleifs and desires. So you have to expect and believe that your crush will be there. Just keep trying, do it some more. Nothing ever works the first few times for me.