lol dude im thinkin you got to IMAGINE her taking her clothes off… like… BELIEVE in it when you imagine it. for me… I simply said… (its in my dream journal btw i only have 1 post on it) I want two shot guns in my hand, and these two agents opened their door (they were about to attack me and my dream guide (im thinking it was a test or way to train me on HOW to control my dream) so I said that, and I lifted my arms at them and Their was no shotgun! so I ended up stealing one from them and i ran outa ammo and i IMAGINED myself pulling out a shotgun shell from my pocket and so i reached in my pocket and it was their!!! a red shell. so yeah… thats just my example. for today I WILL lucid dream and call for my spirit guide and ask him how im doing on my path in life, and I will call up my ex girlfriend and try to fuse our dreams together so we can talk (never talked in 2 years) and i will make her realize she is lucid dreaming, than i will give her my phone number and emphasize how important it is for her to remember it so she can call me (she deleted my number but i still have hers.
Your dreams reflect your life, your thoughs and your consciousness/subconsciousness. That means, that if you ask a girl to take off her clothes, she will do the same as IRL - freak out. Your dreams reflect your expectations, and they will only do what you expect. Therefore, if you want her to take off her clothes, you must really expect, that she will be willing to do that. Try to think of a reason (doesn’t have to be logical) why she would want to take off her clothes. If you know the reason, if you expect her to react in that way, if you believe it, the dream should accept what you want.
I was LDing, and wanted to create an object. I really focused on it, reached my hand to the side where I coulnt see it, imagined myself holding a hand gun, imagined it`s weight, how it would feel, everything…
When I reached back, there was nothing, only my hand in the form on how I would grip a hand gun…
I think you should try again or just want more to create sth, be more self-confident, know that it’s your dream and you could do it.
In my last LD I wanted to create a carkeys to a car parked in front of my house (new Subaru, created earlier by me). I thought it would be good to find them, so I tried to “create” carkeys in a wall cupboard. So I imagined that they’re in this cupboard, opened the door and… nothing.
So I closed the door, tried a little more self-confident and aware of the effect, thought of them in the cupboard, opened the door - and there they were
I think it’s all the matter of how sure you are when you do something, how hard you believe
and yeah dude I honestly for the shotgun shells didnt even think about the weight… thats like… over thinking status haha BUT i totally get what ur saying, maybe that just happened to be the ONE time it didnt work. I just like… BELIEVE/HOPE. I dunno if its cuz i REALLY didnt want my Dream guide to die, or whaaa lol but I totally just freakin ‘did’ it. idk how to explain. for the shotguns i just “said/planned” it… if that makes any sense. how do you guys get notified of a new message? i am searching my name “friendlyguy” on the search and click anything in hopes of a response… most other forums I just get a notification…
I believe it is really natural for me and my brothers… Every since I was a kid Ive had SP and LD from time to time, so this isnt all new to me. I am also sleeping 6hours, staying awake 45_60min and going back to sleep everyday, and performing WILD sometimes when Iget to sleep on afternoon. Now it is 5:17on Brasil, it is my 1hour awake, and I am on my phone, sitting on bed… Hahaha!
I guess I get you. When I want to fly, I just do. It is natural, i dont overthink it. Maybe I need to try this. Well, probably gonna try this in abou 30mins! Yeeeeeey! Hehe
Yea If I had one of me LD’s I wanted to do something with a women… you know what xD I was in a class and there was a teacher, all people from my class and another person that I didn’t recognize. I wanted to catch her but she just was running away and I could do anything. You know, it’s all about your counciousness. You need to train it, because If in RL you think you can’t do nothing, you’re useless and so on, people from your dream will say EXACTLY the same thing when you for example will try to fly.
Dear Baldok,
I am afraid to say, you cannot , by any means, ‘CONTROL’ your dreams, only ‘DIRECT YOUR FOCUS’ within the dream. Your dream may always not provide for whatever you ask for. Strictly not for sceptics here. one of my friend LD and expected to see GOD, but one of the dream character (Maybe Spiritual Guardian) said to him that he needed to fully evolve to experience GOD. My friend expected to be in alaska, but ended up being in new york.
When you expect to be in lush green garden, are you really adding colours to the garden? When u expect to see a girl in your dream, are you determining what dress she is wearing? You are not adding colour, you are not determining the way things appear in dream, sometimes lucidity fades even if u wish to prolong it, you may not get favourable response from dream character. so how can u say you can control your dreams? Its that you are directing your focus within your dreams.
Also as said by some members, your social makeup, personal beliefs, your confidence and character in real life plays a significant role in determining the outcome of your dream.
As for “Dream Control” I agree with most of what has already been said. Your personal beliefs reflect your dreams and your ability in your dream. I once heard about a guy who couldn’t get laid in his dreams. He was so afraid of rejection that his emotions reflected themselves in his dreams and all the girls wound up laughing at him. Sad story but true.
