Hey everyone, this is my first topic. I’m new to the forums, but not to the idea of lucid dreaming. Thanks for taking the time to read my questions and thoughts.
Now, dream interpretation. I don’t understand how someone on a website, or on a dream symbol dictionary or anything like that can tell you what your dream means.
Lets say I have a dream:
A dog chases me around the backyard before climbing up a tree and then proceeds to throw apples at my face until I feel like crying.
What I don’t understand how someone can look up dog (symbol for friends and friendship) chasing (symbol from hiding away from emotions) tree (symbol for wisdom and superiority) and apples (symbol for love and deception) and the apparent meaning for their dream.
My dream means I am upset or afraid of what will happen if I profess my secret love to my crush, who just happens to be my best friend.
Note: All above symbols are made up.
How can all those symbols listed in dream interpretation books be correct for everyone? Do we, as humans, have a collective unconscious, so all the symbols in our dreams have the same meaning?
And then, if that’s assumed as true (collective unconscious) - how in the world do people come up with meanings for each animal and event in dreams anyway? Are they just lying or making it up? Seeing as you cannot prove dreams as having any inherit meaning or, if they have meaning, not being able to accurately determine that from mere symbols without further psychological analysis for each individual - the dream interpretation by symbols method seems shady to say the least.
Are those booksellers/authors who claim to know the meanings of symbols hacking into a scam in a readily-believable niche market?
Yes, I know dream interpretation is fun and sometimes taken lightly by many, but some take it seriously. I probably would not be exaggerating if I said thousands of people would be angry and upset over purchased books if they knew their meanings have no foundation or reasoning.
And if, say, personal dream interpretation was viable - that is, self-symbolism or finding the meaning according to your current stance in life - isn’t that just the same as looking at your life and trying to figure out what’s wrong or right with it? Or going to a psychologist and asking for an opinion while you explain your circumstances? It’s just the same.
Theoretically speaking, if our unconscious/subconscious mind is influenced by our waking periods, how would reaction and meanings to life be any different to those of the conscious mind? Just because we can not always access our subconscious does not mean they hold extra meaning or anything mystical like that, or that it is anymore insightful than our conscious.
Yes, personal dream interpretation may provide some answers to your mind and unconscious, but it’s just an extra step or gateway in the methods of mediation and counselling and nothing more than that.
All I really think dreams should provide is the basis of which to work on psychology and counselling.
For instance…
(M = me, P = psychologist)
M: I dreamt of apples and I felt scared.
P: Why did you feel scared?
M: I dunno. I’ve always had a irrational phobia of fruit though.
P: Why?
M: I was poisoned when my Mum forced me to eat a rotten banana when I was little. We were short on food and that’s all we could afford.
And so we lead into the final stages of therapy.
Hypothetical me has not coped with the depression of poverty and it’s effects on my life. Now, rather than meaning love, the apple is an actual memory of my childhood. See how the dreams provide, not the meaning, but in reality, the trigger? The emotions (fear) are more important than the symbols themselves. If I dream of apples after my session and feel happy during my dream, wouldn’t that suggest an improvement in my condition?
All further insight and personal anecdotes are highly appreciated.
This topic is not intended to be pejorative.
Thanks everyone again. Ethan.