wyvern, i too have never have the problem of wakin up. as in real life im very far from being premature , so i usually get bored after a while in the dream and do something else. i have never had an orgasm in a dream before.
out of my last 4 ld’s i have had sex in 2 of them. in the first one the girl i was having sex with turned into a pile of clothes halfway through ! and the second one we got interrupted.
sometimes, VERY RARELY i will have a sexual encounter in a dream that is not lucid. but it doesnt happen a lot. you can see my dream journal in my sig for what i actually do dream about.
Hehe, sorry to refer back to the beginning of the topic but I’m curious about the B3-vitamin Niacin, and the other sex inducing vitamins that Jay mentioned… does anyone have a clue where to get these, and do they make you hornier in RL aswell?
I don’t need to have full on sex during these LD’s, but I just want some nice tits to squeeze. BTW, when you do stuff like that, does it feel real? And I also dont want to wake up wet of ya know what I mean…
Why is it I can have sex in NDs and not wake up even when I orgasm, but in LDs I always wake up in the 1st minute of sex? Sometimes in dreams I can’t even feel sex or i can barly feel it. I will try to control my breathing and see if it helps…
Look, I’m not really into sex LDs, but I read somewhere in the forum (maybe in this very thread) that rubbing your hands on your parner’s body (yeah, I know) helps stabilyzing a lot. Give it a try I can’t assure it will work, though.
I had a WILD last night. I tried to concentrate on my breathing while having sex and it was working! well…for a few minutes then i noticed i could’nt breathe well because my nose was stopped up as it often does when I sleep. If it had’nt have been for that I’m sure it would have lasted longer. Maybe I’ll try some of those breathe right nasal strips because the inability to breathe is what wakes me up more often than anything.
Usuually these dreams invovle LOTS of excitment, which can be bad for new lucid dreamers, I remember trying the “when I’ll fall asleep I’ll DO HER” meditation and although I did succseed ( ) it took a long while because i kept waking up…
Tip: take your time, let it come natural, don’t expect anything, be cool like in real life, and don’t wet the sheets
Almost every single night, I have some sort of wet dream, but I can hardly remember it. But when I wake up after that,I feel energized for the day. But the times that I “do” remember, it is aout a neighbor, or someone I’ve met recently, that I would date a few times, etc. This gives me a tremendous need to be with that person. Does this happen to others?
Yes, definately. Many years ago, I had an erotic dream about a girl which was living in my neighbourhood. This dream (non lucid) was so intense that I fell in love with that girl, tried to get her for years after that. Unfortunately, I did not succeed in that.
That can be a very drastic effect and, like in my case, a very frustrating one also…
, so i usually get bored after a while in the dream and do something else. i have never had an orgasm in a dream before.
! and the second one we got interrupted.
I had some good sex LD’s last night. I even decided to switch genders.
TheClown’s scoring big with some clothing! You dawg, you! I sure hope you know how to treat a sock right.
though i dont record my sexual related dreams, i have them quite often
I will try to control my breathing and see if it helps…
I can’t assure it will work, though.
) it took a long while because i kept waking up…
But when I wake up after that,I feel energized for the day. 
But the times that I “do” remember, it is aout a neighbor, or someone I’ve met recently, that I would date a few times, etc. This gives me a tremendous need to be with that person. Does this happen to others?