hard question

Ok,

I am going to try my best to explain what I am asking here so bare with me.

I have had a lot of DILD’s before I have had no WILD’s (but got very close) and I have had a one MILD.

When I realise I am dreaming in a ND I become lucid, I can fly around and do stuff but like I am not as concious as I would like to be. I am foggy minded, don’t know who I am, forgetful, no sense of what I am doing. When ever I become lucid I really want to stabalise the dream and walk around and check out the dreamscape but I always forget to and just fly off and materialise hot chicks. I think I do this besause when i first stated LDing I just wanted to fly and have LD sex, but now I have gotten over that and I want to stabalize the dream and try other cool things but when ever I get lucid for some reason i just fly away. I would like to have 100% counciousness like in waking life.

If you succeed in WILD are you very councious in the dream?? like nearly 100% .

I think that comes with practice, because when I WILD, im only maybe 60%(mentally) there. I have a hard time remembering what I wanted to do and tend to get caught up in one thing. I’m sure we will both get better at it eventually. :confused:

practice makes perfect girby, but the trouble is it’s difficult to practice :cry: .

What about the rest out of 100% how much are you mentally ‘aware’

I can break down your problem and analyse it, but I don’t think I know a solution.

It seems like it has become a habit with you about lucid dreamin and flying, so I suppose that when you think of lucid dreaming, your mind automatically associates it with flying.
My best idea to the solution would be to break the habit, but I do not know how. Maybe change your association with flying?

WILD I’m not so sure… never did one before.

Any technique will put you on the same spot. Next LD you have, you should try stabilizing techniques, like looking at your hands, or rubbing them. :wink:

yeah bruno, i really wish i could. But as soon as i realise I am dreaming, away i go. It is like a reflex, as soon as i find out im lucid i automaticaly jump and fly. I am trying to stabalize it but i always fly fly fly. :grrr:

Everytime I have a lucid moment that happens. Right when I realize I’m dreaming, I just fly. And right after I lift off the ground the dream fades away and I am left staring at the inside of my eye lids. :sad:

Also when I first began trying to LD all I could think to do was just fly. Nothing else, but to fly. Throughout the day if I ever thought of LDing, I thought of flying. If I ever thought of flying, I thought of LDing… I suppose, its like a ND. If you keep doing reality checks in real life you eventually begin doing them in your dreams. Well if you keep thinking LD = flying, in real life, then you begin doing the same in your dreams.

Frustrating

Because I want something so badly it holds me back. :grrr:

You have to plan while awake something to do as soon as you become lucid. Something like shouting “Increase lucidity!”, or performing a RC, etc.

“But as soon as i realise I am dreaming, away i go. It is like a reflex, as soon as i find out im lucid i automaticaly jump and fly. I am trying to stabalize it but i always fly fly fly”

Perhaps you are not having a LD, but a dream about flying in a ld. I think that if it was a LD you would be able to stop flying if you wanted to.

no, it is definately a lucid dream because i KNOW i’m dreaming and try all different flying techniques

So why cant you stop?

er… because I am not 100% councious, and very very forgetful, foggy minded and not much vividness.