hard question

Quest for Lucidity
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Ok,

I am going to try my best to explain what I am asking here so bare with me.

I have had a lot of DILD’s before I have had no WILD’s (but got very close) and I have had a one MILD.

When I realise I am dreaming in a ND I become lucid, I can fly around and do stuff but like I am not as concious as I would like to be. I am foggy minded, don’t know who I am, forgetful, no sense of what I am doing. When ever I become lucid I really want to stabalise the dream and walk around and check out the dreamscape but I always forget to and just fly off and materialise hot chicks. I think I do this besause when i first stated LDing I just wanted to fly and have LD sex, but now I have gotten over that and I want to stabalize the dream and try other cool things but when ever I get lucid for some reason i just fly away. I would like to have 100% counciousness like in waking life.

If you succeed in WILD are you very councious in the dream?? like nearly 100% .

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I think that comes with practice, because when I WILD, im only maybe 60%(mentally) there. I have a hard time remembering what I wanted to do and tend to get caught up in one thing. I’m sure we will both get better at it eventually. :confused:

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practice makes perfect girby, but the trouble is it’s difficult to practice :cry: .

What about the rest out of 100% how much are you mentally ‘aware’

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I can break down your problem and analyse it, but I don’t think I know a solution.

It seems like it has become a habit with you about lucid dreamin and flying, so I suppose that when you think of lucid dreaming, your mind automatically associates it with flying.
My best idea to the solution would be to break the habit, but I do not know how. Maybe change your association with flying?

WILD I’m not so sure… never did one before.

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Any technique will put you on the same spot. Next LD you have, you should try stabilizing techniques, like looking at your hands, or rubbing them. :wink:

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yeah bruno, i really wish i could. But as soon as i realise I am dreaming, away i go. It is like a reflex, as soon as i find out im lucid i automaticaly jump and fly. I am trying to stabalize it but i always fly fly fly. :grrr:

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Everytime I have a lucid moment that happens. Right when I realize I’m dreaming, I just fly. And right after I lift off the ground the dream fades away and I am left staring at the inside of my eye lids. :sad:

Also when I first began trying to LD all I could think to do was just fly. Nothing else, but to fly. Throughout the day if I ever thought of LDing, I thought of flying. If I ever thought of flying, I thought of LDing… I suppose, its like a ND. If you keep doing reality checks in real life you eventually begin doing them in your dreams. Well if you keep thinking LD = flying, in real life, then you begin doing the same in your dreams.

Frustrating

Because I want something so badly it holds me back. :grrr:

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You have to plan while awake something to do as soon as you become lucid. Something like shouting “Increase lucidity!”, or performing a RC, etc.

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“But as soon as i realise I am dreaming, away i go. It is like a reflex, as soon as i find out im lucid i automaticaly jump and fly. I am trying to stabalize it but i always fly fly fly”

Perhaps you are not having a LD, but a dream about flying in a ld. I think that if it was a LD you would be able to stop flying if you wanted to.

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no, it is definately a lucid dream because i KNOW i’m dreaming and try all different flying techniques

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So why cant you stop?

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er… because I am not 100% councious, and very very forgetful, foggy minded and not much vividness.