I haven’t had a good sex dream in years and i just got so sick of not having them i had to post this up. Well here is the problem. When i start having sex in my dream, I feel an uncomfortable wet feeling and when i look at the person who i would want to have sex in the dream with they turn out to be someone who i would never want to have sex with like my cousin’s (who our way younger then me) or some older dude. I then can’t change the situation and end up experiencing some very disturbing sex scene in my dream. Is there any way i can stop this and if you have problems with this too i would like to hear about it. It may also be because i am not familiar with my sexuality. I feel like i can’t make up my mind about who i like.
This is common. Also, for guys, vaginas with teeth are also common. (sorry for language if your like softcore or sumthing) I think that the cause of strangers and people you would never want is because it is affected by who you are around. Always around your cousins? Sex with them. Always around close friends? BINGO. Chances are, depending on your age, you aren’t constantly with the people you wanna go with, unless you are like 18+,
Hope this helped. Unfortunately i don’t have any fun stories to share.
BTW, I dont know if this goes in the stuff forum, but then again I’m down right TERRIBLE at choosing witch forum to put things in.
I am actually not around my cousins all that much. And i wasn’t sure where this would go i guessed in dreams and stuff because it has to do with a dream and a nightmare i always have. I guess it is because i hate thinking about having sex with younger or older people and it always pops into my head when i am thinking about someone i like.
Well from my experience in LDing, it may be because you think it will happen, even if you don’t want it to, like you say it is because you don’t want it to happen. It seems to be quite common, like my friend Fraser was telling me the other day, he was flying in a LD once, and thought to himself “Oh no, what if I suddenly lose the ability to fly?” You will never guess what happened next lol. A way round it is just to train yourself to remember that it is your mind that makes these things happen, therefore, if you expect them not to happen, they won’t. Or you could just try not to think about them at all.
I’m pretty sure I’m way off the topic, but I think it relates to what you’ve said. How is it possible that those symbols (or rather images, since we don’t know for sure whether dreams have a symbolic meaning) are AT ALL common? I mean, I’m pretty sure that not many folks would say to their peers while sitting around the coffee tablr “wow dude, I dreamt of Vasgina with teeth!”, yet there are symbols which are familiar to all, just read the blurb (by Alan Moore) from the comic book “The Book of Jim” (by Jim Woodring- known for his dream-art):
“Jim Woodring’s stories manage, by some occult means, to be at once unsettlingly alien and intimately familiar. The effect is not unlike opening a new book to find the illustrated account of a dream you had when you were five and told no one about. Cryptic and haunting, Woodring’s work evokes a sense of something important and forgotten. Easily the most hypnotic talent to enter the field in years.”
From the back cover blurb
How is it possible? When I first read a description from a Dali movie (the movie made with the french guy) about the scene in which ants come crawling out of someone’s hand it felt SO FAMILIAR! When I saw the scene, the familiarity was lost, which probably means that it was the first time I’ve seen it, you dig?