I want to know how to have more control in LDs, I want to learn how to:
Walk around and observe things.
Grab objects (I can grab people though)
Have a proper conversation
I think the problem is that I’m not 100% lucid. Can somebody help me out?
So you can’t walk around? Am I to understand that you are not able to use your legs for this puropse? Like, they don’t work? You gotta believe in it, you know it’s possible. Maybe you should first focus on how they feel. Seeing how you can grab people. can you grab your leg and shake it around? sort of, get it going?
Grabbing objects. Same goes there. I don’t know what heppens when you try, but, maybe you are realising too much that the objects are illusions and thus figure they cannot be touched?
Really it just seems like mental blocks, If you keep trying and don’t get too upset about it, wich I think feeds the problem, you will get over them.
As for having a proper conversation, that’s another story. Sometimes DCs just don’t have anything real to say. It’s ofcourse a matter of your own mind so what you carry with you in your mind effects everything. And speech being such a fleeting and subtle thing, but still an exact science, I think, it is highly susceptible to what you are thinking and experiencing when trying to talk to a DC. You expect them to answer you, but you don’t know how. So they may say anything unless you make them say something.