How to find your dream guide?

My dream guide is “the wizard”. I suspect, at least in my case, that dreamguides are a little like sports scouts. Depending on how well you do in interactions, each dreamguide will find you. I did meet someone else once with a similar dg. If you seem to see someone watching you (the same person or character) several times, try talking to it. Be careful, the better you are the better dg you get so don’t push it! Also, do what the dg says. He’s going to test you to see if you can accomplish the assigned task so pay attention to that