Like I write in my DJ and several topics my sub-conscious is making trouble to me from my very first LD to now.I don’t know why he(yes it was he in my dreams) is doing this.So this is my most important objective.I want to find him and talk to him before he kicks me out of dream.I was expecting his guidance in LD to improve myself.But I crossed this and I don’t think I will make progress until I solve this problem/objective.
So how can I do that ? How can I figure out what’s his intentions ? Any techniques or recommodations ?
Heres a tip, don’t communicate with “him”. Simply ignore him and forget about him. Don’t imagine hes not there, just stop thinking about him.
My nightmares used to always prevent me from going into a LD cause i would wake up because of fear. But then i just stopped being afraid by not thinking about them and was able to be lucid.
If things are sneaking up on you in your dreams…try going in with an invisible shield around you or at least the vulnerable parts. Hopefully while you are LDing you can have this shield up to bounce off any negative things that come at you fast. I still have trouble with things that come up on me slow and secretive.
From multiple books that I read, they say that the best way to deal with something hostile is by sending it love. Robert Waggoner’s book on lucid dreaming, for example. Also, don’t think of it as your whole subconscious. It’s probably just one very very small part of it
If you ever get into a tight spot with this hostile dream character, and he pins you against the wall, try sending him love. Chances are he will explode or vanish into you. That way you’ll even understand what he/she represents about you without even having to talk to him/her.
I haven’t seen a dream these days , but when I see it and become lucid and if my SC appears to me I will try to approach nicely to it.But I can’t have that much control it shuts my dream down instantly.I can’t find the opportunity to do this…
