RC Bob, welcome to the forum! 
I would recommend that you read the first post of this thread. I know, it’s a bit big, but it will help you choose a technique that will most likely help you get lucid.
Don’t forget: sometimes it takes time to have an LD, even if you had your first, and you should not quit trying or get frustrated. If ti’s really not going to happen, take a couple of weeks not to think at all about LDing and then restart trying.
—Bruno 