My fiance was killed Dec.10 1999 in a car accident. I spent the night in the hospital with him but he was not conscious. In the morning he was pronounced brain dead and we turned off the machines. I knew he had been in an accident before anyone told me. I saw it on the wall. It was like a vision I guess I had never experienced anything like it before well…once before. It was kinda like a day dream. The first time was when I was walking down the stairs at my house and suddenly I new one of us was not going to make it to the new year. It was just a thought that popped into my head and I knew it to be true. Then the night of the accident I was waiting for his call while watching TV. I looked over towards the fireplace wall and saw a kind of vision of me sitting next to him in a hospital bed holding his hand. After the vision I tried calling him… he did not answer the phone. So I started calling hospitals. He was suppose to meet me at my house at 7pm and this was between 6:30pm and 7pm. Then his grandfather called me and before he could say anything I dropped to my knees. That night I spent in the hospital holding his hand for the last time.
I have dreams all the time that he calls me and he is alive but he says he can’t see me. I am so confused and don’t understand why. It seems like he wants to see me but something or someone is holding him back. There is this space between us. In my dream I just can’t understand why he won’t meet me. I do have dreams where we are together again but this other dream is more frequent. Then today it hit me. He is on the “other side” he still exists! He just can’t be in this physical world with me. He is still apart of consciousness but with freedom. In the other dreams I do visit with him and when I wake I feel as if I really spent time with him. So when I dream of him again I will try to tell him that I understand or maybe he already knows I do.
Im so sorry to hear about your loss. Dreams, and LDs are a great way to hold on to your lost loved ones.
I know the type of dreams you mean.
I’ve had dreams of loved ones who have passed and known, when I woke up that I have spent time with them and in the most recent instance, I’m reasonably sure that I shared a dream with my Mum whilst dreaming about my Step-dad. 
It was quite beautiful and made me feel that he wasn’t completely out of our reach or we out of his.
Thankyou for sharing this Libybug. 
In my dreams about my dad, who died 3 years ago, it’s like how life used to be back when he was alive. Everything is just normal and i don’t even think it’s weird he’s there. It’s never been in a spiritual way…