iv had the same feeling,
there is a girl who comes only once in a while in my dreams, but alwasy had since i was little, and shes always been only a few days older than me, in my dreams she has grown with me, and i feel a very strong connection to her, and always did, when i wake up im left thinking WTF !!! and i srtress getting back to sleep, coz i hate waking away from her =/
Wow! i didn’t think about that. now i am . lol. i have fallen in love by being someone else,( like a different personality/lady) with celebrities, tv. people in dreams. which started my fantasy movie stories. heehee i hope i have Ld soon so i can make the movies in there- i have dreams in which i see new movies and let me tell you my friends, the movies i see seem so real like movies in real life! it is sooo fun. and the dreams are so vivd too.
maybe someone you knew from a past life?
maybe something you have to let go of in your head if you feel all sad about when you wake up?
check into this, find out who this person really is.
I once fell in love with a DC; i felt i really strong connection with him and sadly i can’t even remember his face! Near the end of the dream he died and i was so depresses
He had given me a sea shell as a lucky charm and when i woke up i went off looking for a sea shell which looked like it. I couldn’t stop thinking about the dream for 2 days.
hey all,
I was wondering what all your thoughts where on love in dreams… i mean everyone has there dream signs and reoccurring characters etc… i was wondering if you think it is possible to have a dream character that you grow so close to in your dream life that you grow to have a love for them… and i dont mean as a dream character but a real love
here is a story im writing… based exactly on my dream life… so imho it is possible but i still wanna hea what other people think …
“there is a girl in my dreams, as she has always been, from my young years to my present, she occasionally pops up in a dream, growing with my age, always equal to my own, as she grows, she changes, as i do, but she takes the form of what seems to be the girls i hold closest to my heart, i have never seen a human or any other creature likewise so unbelievably beautiful and stunning, and although i have known and deeply loved this girl for my entire life time, still i don’t know her name or any such information, except for her age, i do know however that it is love i feel in my sleeping hours, not just lust, as when i wake up i feel like my life isn’t right without her there, but in the waking world, not all is as it should be”
also on a different topic i am going to make a thread about this and keep the story updated as i write it so keep a eye on my pm if you wanna keep reading more[/center]
I have had the same feeling, but the minus with this is when you wake up, it feels
EDIT: there is a topic called Love In Dreams, these posts should be there
Continuing where a fellow friend of mine left, do you think it’s possible to Love a DC? Not like a friend, truly love a DC? It’s happened to me a couple of times, but I can’t recall who they even were!
I’ve experienced this many times. IRL I’ve never been in love, incredibly infatuated maybe, but never in love. If the RL feeling is like the dream feeling then I can’t wait.
It’s so weird how our minds can create feelings in our dreams that we have never felt before. Maybe it takes it from our love for our family and friends, but is that really the same? Having never loved IRL I can’t say.
It’s never happened to me, but…
When that happens, do you think maybe your soulmate is visiting you in a dream?
Hmm, maybe not… ^^ but maybe in some cases…
Who knows.
This has happened to me a lot, and, quite recently. It’s never sexual. The girl is always different and I don’t know them in RL. My reasoning is that perhaps these people that we meet and fall in love with are just architypes of our perfect person, or soul mate.
The thing I always remember is holding her for a long time, and feeling strong connections. Then, in the morning, feeling dissapointed that she isn’t real.
These dreams hurt. Waking up and realizing the person isn’t real is saddening.
Think i’ll start this by firstly saying HI! because i really havent been on this site in a while been soo busy with work etc! life just gets so busy eh? time passes quickly but ill be back now! , anyhow back to the topic in question…
So my problem type thing is i regularly have dreams involving the same person, and this person does exist in real life they are actually a celebrity(well kind of not well known though) but i dream of them a fair few times in a week and in these dreams they are always different but we are always together (as a couple) but i feel i have a really strong connection to them .Like they remember me in each dream and always no we are together ,if i havent dreamed of them in a while i say things such as ‘ive missed you’ and they always reply saying they have missed me too and have been waiting for me.Also ive said to them in a dream ‘please make sure you meet me in real life’ (haha sad arent i)and they said they will and they promise too haha it all seems soo convincing and i no this seems totally crazy but im my dreams obviously it dosent cos i feel actual love for them anyone else get this type of thing and feel totally sad when you wake up and it isnt real ?
Hey just posted my own topic on this without seeing this first duh! next time ill look properly, but yes! i totally understand what you are saying i feel exactly what you feel its kind of unreal i guess , when i have a really strong one like this i think about it all day! also ive never been in love before either maybe this is why we have these type of dreams who knows , also i noticed you posted this a while ago , are you still having these type of dreams ?
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Oddly, I only experienced love in this way when I was too young to love romantically, when I was a little boy.
I don’t think I’ve ever expirienced actual, romantic love in real life nor in the dream world.
However… I have had very, very powerful dreams, in which I have cried from sadness.
I expirienced a dream where I was back In California, with all my family…and we were so happy, and I was so happy, finally home again, I thought, and I acully cried tears of joy in the dream, and I hugged everyone, out of Sheer happiness…
but then sadly, I woke up, and I found myself crying tears of sadness.
Sometimes dreams can be so cruel…
i dreamed that i deeply loved a girl i even had about five dreams with her and i would wake up in the morning and still hold that deepest love locked inside me for her, then the last dream i had of her was that i was made fun of for loving her and i was hurt deeply i woke up thought about it all day and never have seen her since.
Now I’m embarrassed for sharing a secret Ive never told anyone. oh and i don’t still have feelings for her. especially because the people who made fun of me were her friends. *Note she was only a dc in school i have never known.
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next time you talk to them, really believe it with all your heart and work very hard on having them come to you in the waking world
because you can and do meet people in your dreams before you meet them in life
one time i found myself in a house of legos with a wonderful musician and two people with beards
little did i know what 3 months later i moved randomly into a house with these bearded fellows and had a small 2 person band going for a while, which was very wholesome and fun.
also try to recognize this world as a dream, so that you can take your lucidity and approach a desirable girl or guy, and say hi to them
its realy easy HI !
Hi,
Hey,
hey,
how are you ?
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then communication is established
just talk to people with an attitude of confidence, like you would if you knew it was a dream and you cannot fail!
I have a few times, in a few dreams both lucid and non lucid.
I have felt this connection with dream characters that I know in real life, and on very rare but powerful occasions, with DC that I do not know and i this particular lucid dream it was very very strong connection, it equates to what I feel now with my girlfriend .
funny how the mind works
hmmm… what is Love? JEsus said it is “GOd”
so what i think Love is : every feeling besides negative ones!!! lol
Seriously! Peace, kindness, Joy, happiness, fun, belonging, etc. All the positive feelings and ideas we experience are full of LOVe.
So even in dreams it is a great thing to feel Love- especially when Lucid—we can control it! Amazing world this is~ Our existence is the Awesomest thing ever (especially when there is Love/Positivity all around)
I think that love is everything.
All emotions are love.
Different degrees of love
just like different degree of light all look differently, they are still all light, in different degrees. Even the blackness is just an absence , or you could say a degree, of light.
In much the same way, every emotion we experience is love. at some degree.
Now, to get more on the subject,
I experienced love (in the usual meaning of the word) many times in dreams.
Usually with DC’s that are not just a DC if you ask me.
But I sometimes experience great feelings of love towards beings that I consider to be my own mind’s creation.
Love is absolutely the best !