My troubles

Every few days or so, i have a dream where i say, this is a dream!! I do the RC check, and… my finger won’t go through my hand, i have had 6 of these and it hasn’t worked once, my dream person then realizes it’s a dream and does some stuff i would do in a lucid dream, but i had no such control, i keep having very low lucid level dreams

You could try to use a different RC. Maybe try the nose RC or try jumping. Basically, if one RC doesn’t work for you, try to find one that does. As soon as you do find one that works for you, train using that one instead and hopefully you’ll do it instead of the faulty RC’s.