What is keeping you from Lucid Dreaming? Because as cliche has this may seem, nothing is holding you back but yourself.
Is it the necessary time? Are you unable to devote as much as you would like? Either due to school, work, or other responsibilities?
It may possibly be the fact you have not experienced such an altered state of consciousness. Is doubt holding you back?
Could it be fear? Fear of the unknown?
It might possibly be a matter of health. Do you need more sunlight? Better Nutrition? This plays a much bigger role than many would care to admit.
If none of those is may be the simple notion that “It’s just not that important to me.”
I have found the best way to induce Lucid Dreaming, for me, is to study my regular non-lucid dreams. According to numerous phycologists, including the world-famous Sigmund Freud, we dream about our inner most desires and internal problems.
I often dream about smoking, such a deadly habit I have become to overcome. I also regularly dream about women, either ex-girlfriends or unknown random participants. Again, sexual lust is one of my daily struggles. I dream of work as well, which I often loathe going to on most days to the point it even affects my days off because of my obsessive nature reminding me “You have to go to work tomorrow”. That dream seems to be a manifestation of my constant struggle with living in the true moment. The now.
I say all that to say this. I believe the more you become in-tune with your dreams the easier they will become to decode. If you take these “lessons” and work on them during your waking life you will simply not have any “internal issues” to work out leaving an open slot or “clean conscious” for Lucid Dreaming. Are we following…?
Again, you are the sole reason you do not have Lucid Dreams. There is no outside force mandating that you will not gain lucidity.
I also suggest combining methods. Performing daily reality checks along with WBTB & WILD. Early morning appears to the best time for most. Try afternoon naps as well. Find what works for you. Nothing is holding you back. And the very night I reminded myself of this with the use of mantras, which I also highly recommend MILD, I had the longest most vivid Lucid Dream of my young Oneironaut Career.
… Thoughts???