You’re gonna have to bear with me here…
Me and a friend of mine have been really good friends for almost 2 years now. We have recently fallen in love with each other and have been going out for about 2 weeks now. Unfortunately, she had to go be with her relatives and will not be back for a while.
My question is this. I want do dream about her so I can spend time with her in my dreams since I currently cant spend time with her in reality. Since I’m not far enough yet in my “Quest to Lucidity,” I wanted to know if there was any other way I could dream about her without actually becoming lucid. I seem to remember reading an article a while back on some other website about how there is a way to do this in an Autosugestion like way. I realy dont care if I can dictate what happens in the dream or not I just want to be “with” her. Any advice would be appreciated.
What Bombax said. The best way to dream about something is to think of it a lot, especially before going to sleep. I think meaningful thoughts will be more helpful here - Not a random “OMG I LUV HER!” but more like imagining how it would be like when she’s back.
basically just think about her a lot and have her on your mind. in a book by Stephen LaBerge it was said that you can actually induce dreams just by telling yourself you’re going to dream about a certain something as you’re falling asleep…so yeah. i’ve actually done the exact same thing with a girl before, and it actually worked.
<Try to visualise her in every aspect and in detail, remember dont try too hard.
<Remember all the good times you’ve had with her and you have to feel it.
<and after doing that for awhile until you got it stuck in your head, I would chant her name in my head like a mantra until you fall asleep. An alternate is you could say "Im going to dream about _____.)
Good Luck and remember to clean up your bed in the morning
and remember to clean up your bed in the morning 