hi all,
i’ve searched for a topic like this, but i didn’t find one.
perhaps it would be nice, if there was a gathering topic like “how to take control of your ld”.
i only found a few topics, where someone asked how to control it… and often there were answers like “dont try it, do it or don’t do it” etc.
but i think that’s not the only advice anyone can give. there are different methods, how to construct or to do anything, especially things which you’re normally having trouble with.
hence it would be nice if there was a gathering topic about “controlling methods”
anyway i will show you “another” method for controlling your LD (it has to be tested if it works well. also i don’t know if this method is suggested anywhere, but i didn’t find it until now). once i experienced intuitively something, that made me think of the following idea. but first my experience:
first of all, i became lucid. i often had trouble controlling the dream scenareo, especially in avoiding to wake up or to let the scene drifting away. so i wanted to let the dream to go on. i was a little bit frustrated, that my ld’s were so often very short and boring and that i have had so less control within it.
so, spontaneously i acquired the idea, “remembering” a lucid dream, in wich everything has happened well. i knew, this memory was a fake, because i myself made this fake memory. but i liked it. so i “remembered” more and more scenes of my “dream”. i let the story growing without my own interference. the only thing i managed was that the dream took a long time, that i stood all the time lucid and that it wasn’t boring etc. it was a nice dream and it worked well. particularly the scenes became more and more vivid and real.
so after this experience i thought about that way constructing things and i made a suggestion for more control within a lucid dream like that…
the main thing with this method is to visualize not happening things right now or in future or just as wishes, but visualizing “faked” memories. so if you have trouble in visualizing anything, e.g. you can’t fly around, the advantage of this method is, you just fancy that you already did it. and then you visualize how you did it and perhaps the scene will become more vivid by and by.
so the lucid moment is, that you stay as the one remembering all the things you just see. and another part of you is getting involved by the scene. the longer you “recall” your false memorys, the more they become to reality and you experience them right now “as if” it were no memory (this is, i think, because past and future don’t exist in a special way: everything is right now. and so past and future events are experienced (and constructed) only in the present.) while dreaming, the advantage is, memories are becoming faster reality than in waking. because you can better focus on it and not so much is interruping you. when you’re fancying anthing in your dream a long time, it becomes more and more real. so with memories.
so it’s like you were an actor and you’re playing a dream scene, and also you’re the almighty regisseur who’s telling everyone what to do etc. but this time, you’re playing as if everything already happend before. (and i think, in a special way, like i already said, everything happend “before” - just like everything will happen in the future (also the past will) and just like nothing ever happens… but this is theory. i think this is a great explanation / description of my experiences about time, but you may think odd. let this be enough theory, and concentrate about the method. you may explain your experiences like you want to…)
it’s like suggestion. with no words like “i will” or “i want” or “i do”, but with “i have done” etc. perhaps, for some, this way of suggestion would be easier, because the past you fency is more definite than any future or willing suggestions (for me). all in all it’s just a language trick. but your thinking depends on your language and your reality depends on your thinking.
perhaps you think about other language tricks in suggesting/ thinking/ taking control, just like the often suggested method: “do it” (right now), or like visualizing a future event or like anything else? let me know if you have another ideas or preferences.
and let me know if my suggested thinking-method helps you. i also would like it if you point out problems with my method or if you have any better proposals etc.
you know… criticize this all
so, in the end, let me sum up with this: figure out, how you think about the most definite things. and so you have to realize your will. with a thinking, that is most certain.
ps: i already said, my english isn’t very well, so i apologize.
and if you can, please show me my mistakes, especially in grammar and phrasing… because i really want to learn it…and do you want to read this mistakes over and over again? i thik it would be also annoying to you