I think we kind of went off track here and instead of helping someone with a specific problem/issue we have drifted into the more general topic of morality in dreams. In which case this discussion should be continued in Morals in DreamsorKilling in dreams
There is also a killing DC’s somewhere and several other threads related to this topic. Like I said, helping someone with an individual problem is ok but when we get into general issues it would be better to put them in any of the above general topics.