Nifty62! Happy to have you join our site!! PasQuale has done an amazing job at creating a helpful, informative LDing website, she stays very involved and offers a lot of guidance. As for the rest of the community it is, as you will see, very close nit and you will make a lot of friends here. There is a topic called LD4all is the best! on that page you can read others opinions on LD4all. https://community.ld4all.com/t/ld4all-is-the-best/30958 (i’m not sure how to create a link to another page can someone help me with that, please) 
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As far as an Adoption Program I’m not sure what that is but I’m sure someone else could help you with that. There is a guide I recommend reading and the link for that is at the top of the page next to home. 
Hope I was of a little help. Enjoy the site and happy to have you here!! 