I agree. Work is a elementary factor!
And I’m a lazy one too! hehe Lazy people love to talk, and tell others what they should do!
Another day I talked to a LD’er in msn, don’t remember his nickname 'cause he rarely appears in the forum.
I was explaining him what I usually did when trying to WILD. - never actually succeeded, but I came near.
Talking to him about that made me want to try again.
I was actually trying everynight, but with very low effort.
That same night I gave it a hard(er) try and had some success!
I’ve been trying more again, and the other night I came real close to having a real WILD.
The night after I didn’t actually get into the dream but I found some new things about me! (i was going to right, us)
So things are moving forward!
Try hard, you’ll improve.
By The Way, I have another key factor to add to the list!
Define your goals. I always thought it was kind of silly, because the goals are pretty obvious. I want to do this, that and that! Like that.
But that night(that I’ve mentioned to you) in which I discovered new things about me, I discovered I need to define my goals to!
I was talking on the phone with my sub-conscious or as I like to call him God. I didn’t remember hearing his questions but I remember answering. And I was telling him what I wanted from LD’s.
As he didn’t seem satisfied I woke up and tryed to figure out what else or what do I really want from LD’ing. - think I figured it out, now. at least a flash!
Hope I made myself clear.