Okay so my old girlfriend was very normal, in the sense that she thought that anything out of the ordinary like lucid dreaming was stupid. So I never really discussed it with her.
But now, my girlfriend is very receptive to new ideas and such, so I told her about LDs and how cool they were and all that, and she decided she wanted to try it too. So we basically just did the same thing as normal, thinking about dreaming, wanting to become lucid, reality checks etc. We didn’t do WILD or anything.
I don’t know if it’s just because when you talk about something with someone and when you’re with them it helps you to focus, but we both had a HUGE increase in both dream recall and lucid dreaming. Prior to that I had never had a non-WILD LD, and I had one the second night. She had one the 5th night, and she had never even heard of LDs before that. Furthermore, we were each in each others dreams a few times. So I suggest everyone gets their partners involved, it’s very helpful
