So I’ve gotten good at, when I’m in bed, detecting an intense brightening sensation in my eyes while they’re closed. Unfortunately, it always startles me and i lose the sensation. Is this close to lucidity, and if so, how can i prevent myself from getting startled by it so easily?
You can prepare in advance by saying you will be calm and relax during those moments. And yes, HH are a sign you’re getting close. Just try to get used to them, since they’re completely harmless, and stay there watching them, but without actively looking at them, just think about relaxing, and your WILD tech. You should get there soon. ^^
You are doing well. Don’t get discouraged because you don’t have the hang of it yet. WILD can take years.
Oh don’t say that, it can take much less with the right directions. 
yea i agree. dont to tell ppl it can take years. that just motivates them in the wrong direction. if in your mind you belief you can do it… you will. 