i want to be aware im dreaming to start with because im sick of not being ‘awake’ during my dreams? know what i mean and plus i can never remember one? HELP plz~~
Haha, join the club!
I have missed so many dream signs that it’s just not funny anymore. 
Keep doing reality check during the day! Use the same ones, so that at one point you will do them in your dream out of habit, and then will realize that you are dreaming.
Ask yourself, “Am I awake or am I dreaming?” many times during the day. Ask yourself “how did I get here” etc. There are a lot of tutorials on this site to read that might help you become lucid.
You remember your dreams by keeping a Dream Journal.
That is a book in which you write all of your dreams.
Keep it right beside your bed (or somewhat further if you think you just might not feel like writing in it) and write all your dreams in it.
Don’t jump when you wake up, just lie on your bed a little, gather your thoughts and start transferring them onto the paper.
It’s the best thing you can do for your dream recall.
As for the first question…well, that’s asking how to lucid dream.You can find the answer in the knowledge base or the LD4all home page 
That would be all, friend.