Well it’s one thing if you want to be lonely, but make sure that it’s not fear thats holding you back. Fears can shape preference which can make choices seem like opinions rather than just coward actions. I can talk all day on forums and chat rooms, especially in games. Yet when I get outside with people it’s the complete opposite. It’s probaly fear at work unless it’s pity banter about some MTV video or a party which I could care less about. I wanted to get xbox live, and when i thought about voice chat it sorta scared me and then I thought “what I’am gonna say?!”. That was fear, I suspose it’s probaly fear due to lack of first hand exprience of comunicating with people using voice and being in front of them. When the fear is gone then you can make the right choice of wether you rather hang with people or stay home.