ill definately try this, tho first i need to become more intune & stable with lucidity, because it sound like excitement ruins things.
I never had sex in an LD, but I had some vivid dreams where I really thought it was reality and I was getting excited and had an orgasm. The thing is I often wake up shortly after and I wonder if it was just in the dream or if I really had it in reality too…
For girls you can’t say, since most of the time I can have an orgasm by just THINKING about it and getting excited, without touching my body (hahaha I bet the guys are jealous now)
so…since it’s all in the head, I bet real or not real, it’s almost the same X)
But nonetheless I plan to have sex in a LD too, just to try it, and with a fictional character that would be even more difficult because I don’t have real features to remember like the touch of his skin or his warm embrace…
Good luck to you all !
hm, thats a nice feat, but do you mean in a dream you can do this or reality? either way im not too suprised, females are typically more in sync with their emotions then males.
I had an LD and thought of how it is to have male genitals. I was kneeling down, took off my lower garments, started visualizing… but suddenly a guy came up and started having sex with me O.O
I woke up shortly after >.<
I had the most annoying dream.
I was in some random place, and realized it was a dream.
I found a house with a big bed in it and like two girls were in there.
I ran to the bed ready to do my thang and then poof. Woke up.
SHIT.
lol last week I had almost this in my LD.
When I became lucid, I had this kind of feeling that made me remember of how I feel when I am excited. And just like that, focusing on this idea, I had a “dream orgasm” (I don’t know if I had it IRL), and then I asked for the sky to take colors that would reflect that feeling of well being and I can tell you that the sky was really pretty X))
Both in a dream and in reality… it’s more because I am able to do this IRL that it happens easily IF I think about it (and that does not happen often) while dreaming, being lucid or not.
When I didn’t know about all the vocabulary and meaning of LDs and all, it would happen after a FA…
But last week it happened in a LD…it was quite short (and that’s a relief because I really don’t want this to be too long ! shame)
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ok so i was reading this thread and the LD sex sounds like fun once i get to the point where i can lucid dream. hopefully soon! 
but anyway. i read that girls orgasm IRL and im afraid that my parents would hear (That would be awkward xD) so to the girls who have done this, do you ever actually orgasm IRL??
weird question! sorry! 
this is my first goal to LD 
Well, I’m not a girl, but from what I hear it is completely possible (just ask Colors). As far as being worried about your parents hearing, it’s not a problem. While dreaming your body is in a state of SP, so the chances of you talking/screaming/moaning in your sleep is pretty low.
I find this topic intriguing. I’ve had sex several times while LDing and in NDs, sometimes its me and a guy and other times its girl on girl and one time i actually had a penis(can i say that on here?). they were all amazing and after every orgasm i always wake up to my disliking and realize i had climaxed IRL. I’m a girl so i know i have nothing to worry about and im not a moaner either. 
Wow, this subject is fascinating. Really hope I can get more regular LDs. Ive managed 4 in the few months I have been thinking about it
do girls want to have sex ?
a friend told me they do just as much as men, but some girls seem to not care about it all ?
i surely have some sort of emotional block because i am often very terrified when being around a girl, to hold her hands, or etc, and its always been really hard to overcome that, because
the male drive is just GO AT IT and the female drive is having someone just go at to you , but how do you know that’s the right thing to do ? ( i am talking about yin and yang 
and i know that it can be that a woman might be all masculine energy and she wants to “go at it” but usually people are either mainly yin or mainly yang as i think of it , regardless of their “sex” )
if you sit and talk about it then all the emotions are gone, it seems scary,
what do girls want that to be like ? can i ask that ? if not pretend i am talking about ( in lucid dreams )
I think I speak for all womankind when I say “YES, girls want to have sex.”
It’s just that we go about it differently. If you look at yin and yang, men are supposed to be all about going at it. That’s what yang is. It’s the mover and the shaker, the doer of deeds.
Women tend to be more receptive. So we do think about sex, and talk about sex, but often not so overtly as men do. That is, it’s from more of a feeling perspective than a doing perspective. If you can talk about sex with a woman and understand her while she talks about her feelings about it, you can have a pretty good conversation about just about anything with her. That’s not necessarily talking dirty (that’s a good way to go about it too…), but just allowing for two different forms of communication. Other women may say differently on this, but this is just what I’ve noticed.
Just curious i really want to know…
. Cause i’m 14 and im not doing it til i’m married but i will in my dream.
please check to see if there is already an existing topic before starting a new one. 
Hey, Rhett, welcome to LD4all. Since you’ve never done it, your mind can only guess at what it feels like, but it can get pretty accurate. From what I remember, the lucid sex I had before my first time felt a lot like a wet dream… luckily without the wet part when I woke up 
In my last lucid dream I got to the point of touching some girls boobs. I liked it (lol)
I look to go further next time. (lol again)
I haven’t had a wet dream either lol. But i want to have lucid sex
this is one of the things I want to do when I’ll gain some control over LD
I mean, in ND I feel it like just perfect, I can’t imagine what about LD! And anyway I don’t know why but in the last days it happened twice that my ND start with having sex with this blonde girl I don’t konw 
and it is just amazing and I still hadn’t done it in RL!
Hmm. Do girls want sex?
Sort of?
about 99.9% of the time I’m not thinking about it But I can’t speak for all girls, I guess there are some that are very sexual and have orgasms 40 times a day.
But me, that’s a good question. Hmm. I don’t care enough that…hmm. I mean, I’ve had erotic fantasies and could really feel it, but most of the time? Not really. I look at topics like this and I’m like, “Oh brother. Get over it.” Maybe that’s a kind of mental block that really gets in my way…I don’t think that should be the right kind of attitude, but I’m like, “Jeez! I have other priorities in life.”
Lol. This was probably me. My view points have changed completely since then. And I wouldn’t really consider myself “christian.”
I think sex in dreams can be either one of three things. It can be an escape/relief it could be an addiction, or it can be just random.
I have to agree with you, it’s “human nature” though.
Listen, i want to master LD’s for a couple reasons, and one of them is not this. However, I find it much easier to do a VILD, or WILD, whenever the scenery has a naked woman in it . The problem is that things get a little serious…and I wake up soon afterwords 
. In fact, I find it very hard to enter a LD without a naked woman being there 
. What it is is all these damn hormones raging through our bodies(males) that make us want to SCREW all the damn time. Like I meditate daily, and sometimes all I can think of for several minutes is screwing a girl. You’d think after screwing a girl this urge goes down…but it doesn’t. Its our sexual drive. The only thing I can tell you all is to use it to help you get in the dream world, then CONTROL it to prolong the dream, or else you’ll soon wake up. To not have it be a wet dream, learn how to pinch it off(there is a muscle that does this). It is difficult, but just keep trying, its all about learning, and practicing, it makes us perfect . Namaste