It seems theres one way to go around all that mess…just stop being virgins people!:)Then you profit both-dream and real life:) 
You make it sound so easy. 
However, most virgins have their own reasons (being shy, or socially inept, religious principles, just not being able to find someone and not wanting to sleep around, having low selfesteem and staying away from physical relationships, avoidance, not having much of a social life, or just not being at the right moment in their life yet), and I don’t think virginity is something to be looked down upon.
Frankly, I’m pretty tired of all the social pressure about losing one’s virginity, and people thinking you’re somehow innocent and ignorant if you haven’t had sex yet. Virgins are not losers, virgins are not stupid, virgins aren’t completely ignorant of what is between their legs. At least, the majority isn’t. 
And virgins can dream of sex. Plenty. 
Well…first of all i was bit joking,hehe im not sending all of you just to go out there and loose it:)
I understand fully what you`re saying but i think i didnt realize it was the way “people thinking you’re somehow innocent and ignorant if you haven’t had sex yet. Virgins are not losers, virgins are not stupid, virgins aren’t completely ignorant of what is between their legs.”
I never thought about it or ppl like this.I just dont like when someone keeps being a virgin or looses it because he/she was told to do so:(
In poland its rather other way around- we put virginity on a high place(at least thats how its seen in media and such) but young people dont give a damn about it:)
So its really up to one and only one-how he/she values it.All im saying with this post is just listen to yourself and go by your feelings.
sorry if my joke looked disrespectable.
Hmm… you guys have raised an interesting point about a RL-virgin’s experience of dream sex. The obvious solution is for all of us RL virgins to have dream sex with each other, then meet together somewhere for RL sex so we can compare the two experiences. 
Another thought: I would think that the sexual experience would be one of those things that is part of that nebulous universal human unconscious. If this is true, a virgin should be able to experience dream sex as if it were real.
It’s okay, I probably reacted a bit sharper than I should’ve. I’m sorry… You weren’t being rude or provocative. ^^ It’s just that for some reason it’s the fifth or sixth time today I hear about it so…
It’s a good thing that virginity is on a high place in Poland. I wish it was the same over here, or people would just respect the lives of others. 
This raises a very interresting thought. I was walking in a dream, wasnt and LD, but some girl just went up to me and well…oral…but i ddint really feel anything. I know that having an LD makes the experience a lot more intense, but omg im a virgin and that would be so annoying if it didnt feel good.
How it feels is not up to you:)So dont worry,just have faith:)
" oral…but i ddint really feel anything"- next time just choose someone else:)Or keep practicing with the one:)
Not that it concerns me, but people seem to be forgetting what the subconscious mind is capable of. Have you never walked up to a wall in an LD and ran your hand along it? Your mind can create the most intricate sensations to a very high level of realism. Given the physical factors involved, how could you possibly say something like “Virgins have no idea what sex feels like” (assuming the person has experienced orgasm)?
Give your mind some credit, people.
Atheist, that’s very true.
Since my first x-rated dream proved that. It felt so real. It was amazing so real. Beyond real. You all just have to experience it to know what I mean.
Yes I have ran my fingers on the wall… felt so real too. gives her small brain a lot of credits 
I am a virgin… a pure one and still in this dream… geez. It was so real. I woke up very ahem sexually activated. Took me a while to settle down. Ha ha ha! 
Be warned… it is more real than you think.
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Damn. 
Anyways, it seems my LDs are directly influenced by anything I read on this stupid board. I was reading this one and the “mom controls my brain” thread at the same time and guess what? Last night, first attempt, then my mom came along and uh, I ended the dream before she got to me
It didn’t feel like anything at all. I didn’t get too far, though. And it was pretty crappy low level lucid. And I wasn’t really interested. It was just some strange reason (reading this thread…) that I was reminded of it. I was supposed to find my spirit guide! I shouldn’t be here, I should be in the spirit guide thread. Sigh. Perhaps when I’m higher level it will go better. Stop calling it X-Rated dream. It’s not that bad, you know. And virgins (hint hint) probably experience dream sex as their educated guesses (and no doubt they would guess) would dictate.
P.S. Jack: Poland has to set their ideals straight.
Ahhh, erotic dreams…always my enemy in their elusiveness.
I have never had sex, never had oral sex, etc. All I have been able to do in an LD (low level) is feel someone up…and in non-LD’s, whenever I have had sex it was strangely without feeling (actually one time I think it DID have feeling…bizarro). Anyway, the point is that my brain CAN create sensations, which I have been trying to “train” it to.
And ANY sort of tactile sensation in dreaming, when you are aware of it, is absolutely mind-blowing. In fact, one of the most erotic dreams I ever had involved a girl feeling me up…wow, I know it sounds mundane, but the sensations involved there were…STAGGERING.
What I think the problem is, is that all my LD’s have been too Low Level, and thus lack control and stability. Thus, when I try to summon “hot girl a,” I end up with strange circumstances and usually an awakening or FA. I’ve been working with a “logic test” to make my dreams more High Lucidity, and thus I believe my powers will intensify and grow in strength.
Don’t ever doubt your subconscious, just give it hints and eventually things will turn out. And the non-virgins, I envy you solely for those sensations you’re having… 
Meh. It’s better that our minds are not poisoned by the low standards of waking life sex. We shall create our own standards!!!
way to go DM7 I myself have never had it in RL or in a dream, although I did try once (lol! In a DREAM) because I think it may be a while till the real thing come along my way 
CharlotteDreamer love your avatar!
Jeff
First off you can feel sex in dreams just like it is even if you have never done it in RL. You can eat things that you have never eaten in and it will tastet the same as in RL. The same goes with smell and other things.
I felt alot of sexual things in my dreams when I was young and they felt just the same in RL years later.
So to those that say it isn’t the same. It may be for you but everyones different.
To the guy that got bad dream head (if I may call it that):
It was probably just by chance. I can tell you that the best head I have ever gotten was from a DC. And this was before I ever experienced RL head. Infact it was so good that the first time I got head I was extremely dissappointed and I didn’t even have an orgasm.
On another note: Since this seems to be changing into and acutal thread, let me be the first to say whats really cool about LD sex is that your stamina is incredible in it. This can be explained by Laberge’s LD sex tests. My memory is a little rusty but I bleieve he tested some people to see if LD sex, like a wet dream, actually makes you have an orgasm in RL. His results were that none of the tested actually had an orgasm in real life. The only reason he doesn’t consider this concrete evidence is because he has been told by other LDers that they have had orgasms in RL due to LD sex.
hmmm dreamwalker there is a lot of realness in what you say but there is one small thing. It is true that we can experince things in our dreams that we have not done yet, and it feels real. but the thing is that it is only what our mind can actally make up. Once we have experinced the event no matter what it is our mind can make new experinces up. It can get very close but not dead on. does that make sence cause i am finding it hard to write this in words
once i remember that i try too much to make one beleive that we are dreaming to let me have sex with her.
that was one of my most realistic dreams.
after that i wake with the feel of guilt.
wait mazduk was that an LD or a regular dream? If that was an LD and you are trying to convince ur DC its a dream you need to show it the hand of god you know. Blow up a building or something bro. Hahahah its easy to impress a DC if you want it to be impressed. Usually I don’t let my DCs have any control in LD sex. I usually will them to just jump on me. Infact, 100% of my sex LDs have been like this: Obtain lucidity, look for a hot girl, either tell her to **** me or do whatever to me or will her to do so. It really depends on how much you think about sex I guess. If you are like me where it consumes a good 80% of your thought processes then it should be simple. Infact, if you read the first post on this thread you can see it has kind of turned into a bad habbit for me. I LD sex too often. LOL. But you have reminded me of something mazduk. Its not about the actions you preform in the LD its about having the LD itself. I go straight to the action too often. I’m going to try seducing my DCs next time (that is if its not my gf otherwise its boring).
i know , when you start to have LD sex it is become a bit hard to stop it. for a while , even now , when in the ld i think to myself so wat? the first thing appiers in my mind is sex , and it is really hard to omit it