LaBerge said that newbies should not tamper with LD sex because they will get too excited and the LD will end. WELL IM NOT A NEWBIE but my sexual LDs always end abruptly and I don’t seem to get excited either. Well actually I might be a newbie… who knows… Anyways I want tips from the experieced LDers on how to enjoy LD sex. Note: I am a heterosexual male. And please no smart ass comments on inserting the penis into the vagina. ありがと
All I can say is it takes time to get used to it. You may not think you are excited but you are.
Yes i agree with dreamwalker…it took me many years to have dreamsex and not wake up soon from it…i can combine calmness now lol with sexual joy and that works in a ld. You need more awareness and practise it seems Park of koryo 
Jeff
Wow!
Lol!
Last night I was lucid and I had my first INTENSE *** dream that involves more just than a kiss! I bypassed that guilty barriar and had… wow. I can’t say much lol, it’s my first X-rated dream. lol! It was a rush that I woke up prematurely from it. Now I see why it’s hard to manage. lol! 
Now I’m even nastier in my dream. Lol! 
I love it! Also I’m not newbie. lol! And it still ended prematurely. 
At least I know what it’s like. Lol!
Ppl all over the world make sex into something of a taboo or something ugly…while it is pure pleasure and fun.
Religion sure made some scars here!
Lets be naturals in everything
From now on!
Jeff
Yes like it made a scar on mine. That’s why it took me a while to have my first dream in this type, but I realized that it’s pure. I never knew that it was like that. Unbelievable!
Lol, I’m starting to be like Jack. Lol!
Great you set yourself more free now Dm7!
MM yes sex in dreams or lucid dreams can be so nice and good lol
also just kissing…kissing in a ld can be better then in real life sometimes lol
Well we are consciousness so all lets go into experience mode lol and discover all thats out there!
Consciousness…the last frontier!
Jeff
Alright thanks you guys. See he never said how experienced you have to be so I assumed he meant 1-2 Lucid Dreams a night. Yeah im not a 8-12 lucid dreamer like Laberge but I can hold my own. And I guess that thing is true that I may not think I am excited but I am because I feel as if it is any other LD. My average LD time is about 5 mins but my average sex LD lasts about 30 sec to a minute. Hahaha you cant really rub your hands together while having sex ya know.
“Lol, I’m starting to be like Jack. Lol!”
If not those LOLs id take it as a compliment but now im confused:)
Yeah,it only takes time to get used to sex in dreams.Like in real life it just takes the practise:)
good luck
Let yourself to be blessed with my power!
Lol!
You can take it as a compliment Jack! I’m going through withdrawal right now. lol! 
I really loved it! What a rush! 
Can’t wait until tonight in my next LD! 
Now you think I’m weird.
“I really loved it! What a rush!Can’t wait until tonight in my next LD!Now you think I’m weird.”
NOW we think you`re NORMAL!
“NOW we think you`re NORMAL!”
Mmmm… normal? I didn’t know that being nastier in LD’s is a key to being normal?
I’m so excited!
Reads DM7’s FIRST post on this topic
Too excited there arent ya? “Lol LOL Lol !!! 
LOL!!!”
Jking 
I could understand why 
Bwhahahahahahahahahahahaha!
LOL! It looks like ld4all is shocked that I have a first post in here and plus first type of this dream. I’m blushing. lol! 
LOL! 
I need to breath! LOL! 
Yes I’m soooooo excited! It’s like I got my first LD ever! It just feels like I finally found a new area to explore (obviously… ).
Hehe having sex is sooo hard hehe i’m not gonna say i’ve been praticing hehe (…) had a girlfriend, now single - now i can start again! ow gonna look forward for tonight
lol! I’m happy for ya DM7
And now I think you’re normal, as jack said!
I’ve only tried it and lost lucidity once. You should be stabilizing and keeping the lucid thought in the back of your mind at first!
Hey Dreamers,
I think that virgins can’t have sex in LD’s. It doesn’t work for them.
Strange, but true. For them it’s like masturbating inside a dream character.
Greets,
Thor
I’m a virgin. And I finally beat my obstacle in my dream! So… ahem it is possible.
I am not a virgin but I do know that having sex does alter what dream sex feels like. I started LDing before I first had sex or had oral sex performed on me and now that I have experienced both sexual intercorse and oral sex it feels much different when I do it in my dreams. However the sensations are all that is different. As long as he/she realizes what goes where, I am pretty sure a virgin can have sex in his/her dream.
I don’t think it’s an issue of ‘can’t’… since virgins have had no sex, they simply don’t know exactly what it feels like. But it’s not like virgins are completely pure and ignorant of sex, you know. 
Opposed to a non-virgin, I suppose a virgin would have to imagine what it feels like instead of knowing it. You’d have to conduct a large enquiry to find out whether virgins have had orgasms through LD sex. If they do, then it ‘works’, does it not?
And just because someone hasn’t had sexual intercourse with another person yet, doesn’t mean they have not done anything else. There’s quite a lot of things you can do without a sex partner; there are ‘replacement’ sex toys, porn, etc. In the end I suppose it’s like Park of Koryo said; the sensations are different, but as long as you know what sex is, you can dream of it.
After all, no human has ever really levitated into the air and flew around, but that’s what plenty of LDers (and normal dreamers) do. There’s so many things people have done in their LDs that they haven’t or even can’t do in their real life. They’re dreams, virtual reality - anything is possible. Including sex, most of all sex, because it is an essential part of human nature (no offense to those who have chosen celibacy for some reason).