Looking for someone to share dreams. (Looking)

Beyond Dreaming
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Goal: To have a small group of lucid dreamers who wish to have a shared dream… though the shared dream may not actually be lucid.

I’d like to keep this under 10 members, and I’d like for all those members to remain active when possible. I’d like to have discussions about what may help us find eachother, meditation, specially designed RCs, projecting the password to another member, etc. There’s no real need to be dreaming at the same time, and I don’t think it’s necessary to have a common meeting place… but we will find what works.

Passwords: I’d like each member to have a password which they do not change. It will consist of two words, a color and an animal. (Ex. magenta frog)

Members:

-The Laughing Crow
-Buttrfli
-Mew151

Successes:

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Hmm, this isnt the first thread of SD, there is a group called The Croniclers

And Im 5 hours ahead of oyu so it gets a bit hard for me :razz:

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@ghostie, she is aware of that. Chroniclers is an enormous group. It’s completely different trying shared dreaming with just a couple of people.

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Eastern Time here. My problem is that I have lot of trouble going to sleep early, normally go to sleep 2-3am, wake up around 7 to take my girl to school and if I hit back the bed around 9-12. My Lucid dreams come in the mornings nap. My daughter finished school today so I will probably be able to fix my dream schedule soon. :tongue:

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why should we have to sleep at the same time ?
perhaps a shared dream happens within a few days for each person ?

perhaps they are outside of time and space, and so everyone has it at the same time ?

i am interested in trying, and using the password system, telling each other a simple word, i’ve tried this often in my own way but its only ever worked with r3TRO and i argued with him about the password while lucid because i thought he was telling me that i had an x-box, and i kept saying “no i have a playstation!”
and his password WAS x-box!

there have to be rules and respectful conduct though, and proper boundaries, since dreams are very personal spaces and people here have a tendency to do wacky stuff the second they are lucid, as do i !

such as : meeting in a “public” “normal” place obviously ,

and my vote is for an amusement park, i love them!

i propose a model :

go to a lucid place, with a lucid name :
such as ld4-all shared dream land (we can figure that out )
, have an animal and a color be your password, like purple dinosaur, but not that,
just two words ,

also pick your animal right now,
maybe one person meets “you” tonight, and you don’t even lucid dream for a week, yet it is the same dream, and the animal is correct ?
and feel free to wear something odd to signify that you are real.
and to look for everyone at this place, rather than attempting to bring them there, or go find them.

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Amusment Park sounds like a great idea, make sense the “no time” in dreamland as we can be in past, present or future there as well. Maybe we can set a date/time so when we transfer ourself there we also request to be at that common time.
I’m in the Orlando/Disney area so many nice spots to choose from here.

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oooh lucky, IOA is a very fun park !

hmm,
the real test of reality is to talk to the “DCs” and ask them about who they are ,
so i will just register this as a fun activity and work on it “tonight” (this morning)
i don’t think the park needs to be “real” , we simply go to one and look for each other.

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Sadly, my LD’s are too far between and my GMT+8 zone might be too far off-line for me to confidently volunteer, but…

How about a smaller SD group for Pantalimon’s Crossroads ? Isn’t that what it’s there for? All the other communities about it seem to have died off, but it’s such a cool dreamscape that I wish the community would be revived.

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Oh! I’m surprised by the response.

Zaret: As suggested in Light’s post, I don’t think I should be too concerned about the timing.

Presence of Light: I love reading your posts, they’re so insightful. I don’t think the same sleep time is necessary, I’ve had shared dreams with one individual who is a few timezones away… and the way time passes in dreams is far from time in reality. It seemed logical to be sleeping at the same time, but why should it matter when the logical part of you mind is asleep while dreaming?

ALSO! Before reading your post about the password today, I had a dream last night that I was going to sleep next to my friend’s mother so that we could share a dream (Who knows why I didn’t become lucid), but she told me that she was going to dream of 20 golden deer. How strange, perhaps the way I view what I know of you caused you to appear to me as an insightful woman I know. Haha.

In other matters… I don’t become lucid as often as I’d like, but my dream recall had been skyrocketing. I think I should have thought this through more thoroughly, but I have you two to discuss with. How would one have a shared dream without either party lucid? Just a desire to connect? I’ll try to become lucid, since the passwords are a sort of confirmation. I’ll write more when I’m not so out of steam.

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very interesting laughing crow,

i had seen your avatar while sleeping or meditating or something of the sorts a day or so before this thread, and a lot about it that passed through the filter of the logical mind, and so seems incomprehensible and is “forgotten” or “not remembered” ,

when i saw this thread then i thought “wow something is up !”

RE : we can have a shared dream without being lucid, but we might not recognize each other ?

i spent allllll my time in one very very long dream that was super fun, and did not have any intentions aside from being there forever, but alas i am back here,

i really thought i could have stayed in India as an etherical person traveling and flying and such.

except this place was not how India would be, it was quite modern and upper class,

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LAughing Crow, I mentioned about the zone time and sleep pattern as it was requested, I have no problem sharing a dream, hopefully we can start connecting soon.

I’m pretty sure I started the journey. I had a very busy day today, and my dream recall is still poor. I had many LDs but a few I can remember clearly. Anyway back to the subject, when I woke up this morning I remember I gave a password to someone. So if you soon have a dream close to a amusment park or similar and a strange DC gave you a word it was probably me. I’m going to use this word for a while, and will keep giving it out.

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Count me in too, if you don’t consider 4 to be too large. I’ve been on a short hiatus from dreaming to focus on developing mental abilities. Now I’m back, stronger than ever. Not too much lucid experience, so I’ll just be doing things through pure will. Have already selected my password.

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I know I requested that information, I was just mentioning that maybe it doesn’t matter too much. It seemed from your first post you were a little concerned about going to sleep so late.

Light: Sounds like a fantastic dream… and take a peak at my DJ to see if the setting of that Golden Deer dream sounds familiar. Had you chosen a word yet?

And Phi, you’re more than welcome.

I’ve got my color/animal codeword. I’ll be looking for an amusement park tonight… though aren’t those places so crowded? Goodnight everyone.

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I will be around the entrance, I saw a Ferris wheel last night close by as well. My password is a thing but I’m adding a color as well.

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Right, to an amusement park. See you by the Ferris wheel.

Results: insufficient recall due to going to bed two hours later than normal.

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so i got something about a black bulldog, presuambly from zaret, but the info-rmation was carried in sleep, not in dream

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are you actually able to be in each others dreams? im not talkin about visions do you guys actually there with each other in the dream?

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Why wouldn’t we be able to? ; )

I think we’ve all experienced shared dreams before… I have at least. We’re just experimenting.

I have no recall of my dreams last night, I was roused bright and early and I rushed up without pausing to remember my dreams.

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Okay, can we please choose something like a nice forest or something instead of an amusement park? It would be really hard to find each other and crowds make me nervous.

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i suppose we can find each other anywhere and then find where we want to go ,

time and space are very not so much real in dreams,

one time this girl i knew just started talking to me while i was dreaming and i got irritated that she was coming into my dreams and threw ice-cream at her

so i think we just need to start talking to the other person as if they are already near us.