Well firstly, A positive attitude would help Just remember that it wont happen over night and that practice is needed.
I assume you are trying WILD? Maybe it isnt the right technique for you…
Take a look at this and maybe you can determine what is infact the best technique for you
https://community.ld4all.com/t/how-to-choose-your-technique/21714
Hope that link helps Keep positve!!!
Goodluck