uncontrollable?

two nights ago i had what i thought i was an LD, i have tried and failed 22 times with the WILD method, that i thought i would just go to sleep regularly but i also thought of trying autosuggestion so i did then i fell asleep but then i was in a room and i asked myself a question although i dont remember what question. By asking this question i realised i was dreaming so i atomatically checked my hands and my fingers were swollen and i realised that ive finally become lucid, then i found myself in my cousins room and as he was watching tv so i wanted to see what i can do so i decide to make mind hands flame but everytime i tried there were only bright colorful sparks generated instead of flames. i was bothered by the lack of total control so i tried to make a buddhist statue appear and i was succesful but the stone statue only appered for 2 seconds. then i decide to see if i can do more, so i tried to imagine myself having sex with an unrealisty beautiful model and this time i was succesful as i was actually having sex with this girl but i was interupted when a big giant man walked into the room and thats when i woke up and i did reality checks and noticed i was really awake and it was around 3:30 so i went back to sleep and i woke up in the morning i was really happy i finally had my first lucid dream but i didnt understand why most of the things in the dream were random,uncontrolable, and overall the dream was quite short, and also i cant totaly recall the dream with full details as it is kind off blurry and kinda hard to remember, is it supposed to be like this or will i improve and have better control? :eh:

This is normal for first lucid dreams. As you have more LD’s you will get better at LD-ing and they will be more clear, you will have better recall, you will have more control and so on. :content:

The higher your Lucidity the better the dream will be.

In otherwords - be more & more aware you are that you are dreaming and KNOW you are in control.

I’ve noticed in my own Lucid Experiences that I am rather irrational most of the time - because i’m not entirely myself as i’m not awake enough, as if I only barely understand that it is a dream.

Essentially this means the best thing you could do for yourself in regards to Lucid Dreaming would be to improve your self-confidence in Lucid Dreaming as well as your ability to wake yourself up further from mild Lucidity levels.

-Goodluck!

That’s probably one of the most funniest things I’ve heard in a LD. Trying to bang when suddenly a large man enters the room. x-D

Well yeah, it is kind of funny actually. :grin:

And divinorum, I hop this awnsers your question. This is not the best of LD-ing. You can have extremely vivid lucid dreams. :wink: