First of all, welcome 
If you’re looking for help, you’ll definitely get some here, so stick around a read as much as you can! 
Ok. Have you tried WBTB? (get up after around 5-6 hours of sleep, stay up for a while, then go back to bed and try to LD) It usually increases the odds of having a LD, although it’s not everynight we can do this, right? 
Well, even just a tiny variation of WBTB can help. For example, when you wake up in the night and remember a dream, do you write it down then or do you write it down only in the morning? You can try getting up and turning the lights on, writing the dream down and then going back to bed. This might be enough to get your mind alert enough to have a LD.
Another thing, take a look here: ld4all.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=30 You’ll find lot’s of techniques and variations of techniques. Give them a try 
Everyone’s different, so you might find something that works better for you. Even tiny variations in techniques can make big changes in results.
you might want to take a look here too: https://community.ld4all.com/t/having-lds-every-night/29815 specailly the last few posts. It’s basicly about how your attitude and way of thinking can help you LD
anything else, feel free to ask! We’re all here to help each other. 